Hey Konfusi0n! First off, welcome to DV! I hope that we're able to help you out here, so let us know if there's other ways we can help. Feel free to browse the site, or if you get stuck with anything send a message to one of the Dream Guides (the guys and gals with the green names) and we'll do our best to point you in the right direction.

The fact that you're becoming lucid is a huge step! At least, it sounds like you're becoming lucid since you know you're dreaming, right? That's really all an LD is. As far as control, that will come with time and practice. One thing that I've found helps is to just try and be creative. Not everyone is going to be able to summon a car by walking through a door, but you might be able to by putting a miniature car in water and watching it grow or something like that. Don't think that some "method" of control is too silly or strange. If you think it might work, try it! You might be surprised with the results. Enjoy your dreams and just have fun and you'll be fine. Everyone dreams a little differently so you just have to find what works for you.