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      I can control a friends dreams

      This is the first time I have ever posted anything so bare with me.
      I am able to, while I am awake talk to my girlfriend while she is dreaming and make her go anywhere in dreamland and see what ever I choose. I mean whatever. The other night I took her to an iceberg to have a drink with a polar bear and a monkey and her dog and she went there. Sounds crazy, and I only do it every once in awhile, but I can do it whenever I choose. I usually start out by touching her feet then she mumbles, once she does I then touch her and she speaks a clear word, I the start talking as she is dreaming. I at that point can direct the dream to the top of the empire state building or to a ship in the ocean or to any place. When I re-direct her dream it takes about a minute for her to enter her new dream area but then I paint her dream world almost exactly how I want. Even sexually, and she has no idea that i did it. I have told her everything and needless to say she is worried what I can do.

      Can someone tell me if there is a name for this so I can research more. Is this normal? I googled it today and found this site so here i am.

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      That's pretty cool, I have no idea what it is, but I know a hypnotist can do it too..
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      so in other words. you bring a real girl into your dreams and then have sex with her without her really knowing? umm isn't that rape?
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      I think he means he's pointing her in a subliminal sorta way, not shared dreaming. Like telling her to go to the empire state building, and that's what she'll dream about.

      I am able to, while I am awake talk to my girlfriend while she is dreaming
      And just for the record, I don't really think it counts as rape if your telling someone to have sex with you in a dream, when your not actually in the dream.... But I do agree it's still a bad thing, cause you can still do an unimaginable amount of harm. On the flip side, you might be able to get her to lucid dream.

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      Quote Originally Posted by MIKEACE View Post
      This is the first time I have ever posted anything so bare with me.
      I am able to, while I am awake talk to my girlfriend while she is dreaming and make her go anywhere in dreamland and see what ever I choose. I mean whatever. The other night I took her to an iceberg to have a drink with a polar bear and a monkey and her dog and she went there. Sounds crazy, and I only do it every once in awhile, but I can do it whenever I choose. I usually start out by touching her feet then she mumbles, once she does I then touch her and she speaks a clear word, I the start talking as she is dreaming. I at that point can direct the dream to the top of the empire state building or to a ship in the ocean or to any place. When I re-direct her dream it takes about a minute for her to enter her new dream area but then I paint her dream world almost exactly how I want. Even sexually, and she has no idea that i did it. I have told her everything and needless to say she is worried what I can do.

      Can someone tell me if there is a name for this so I can research more. Is this normal? I googled it today and found this site so here i am.
      This is a form of hypnosis. You are guiding her verbally while she is in a dream state, which is akin to a hypnotic state. You are not inducing the state, but you are inducing the dreamscape.

      You have a special psychic connection with her, but you are unwittingly abusing it. You will destroy this special connection with her unless you do this with permission.
      When you say, "She is worried what I can do," it sounds kind of creepy, to be honest. It sounds like you are really getting off on it.

      If she wants you to make her have sex dreams or whatever, that's fine for you to do it. Think of what potential you have here. Apparently, she has great recall. Am I right?

      You can induce lucidity. Try that. Just tell her to realize she is dreaming, and she can do whatever she wants. Before she goes to sleep, ask her what she wants to do in the dream. After you suggest to her that she's dreaming, then tell her she has whatever power or thing she needs to complete her dream goal.

      Here's an example.

      You are in a dream. Look at your hands. They look strange because you're in a dream. Pinch your nose shut. You can still breathe because your dream body doesn't need to breathe. You can breathe underwater or fly, because you're in a dream. You can do any type of magic you wish. Create a fireball with your hands. Now, shoot it at something, and burn it up. Now try this, summon the most delicious chocolate cake. There it is, just because you want it. Smell it. Look at the details of the cake. Now take a bite. Isn't in perfect? This is a lucid dream. You are going to remember being this dream as clear as day, because this dream is so bright. Glance around at your surroundings. Now walk around in your dream, and touch things. This dream is lasting for hours. You decide to find your dream guide. You open a portal to your Dream Guide. There your dream guide is. Ask your dream guide if they are real. Ask them anything you wish. Your Dream Guide has all the answers to dreams. Ask your Dream Guide for a gift, and thank them. Wave goodbye to your dream guide. Open a portal to the physical plane, right outside your house. Walk in the front door. Walk to your bedroom. Look around and touch things. Try and move something. See yourself sleeping in bed. Lie down in your own body. You remember this dream. The dream is fading. The dream fades away. All you see is black. You feel yourself waking. You feel your body. You hear yourself breathing. You are going to remember the dream. Wake up. Open your eyes.

      You can take lots of long pauses, and also say, 'This is a dream', often. Also make sure you wake her up very slowly.
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      Wow... Nomad worded what I was thinking better than I did... so I deleted my post that sounded like BS to my own ears. I agree with Nomad that the connection could be used to benefit both of you, but using it to make her do things without her consent is foremost a violation of trust. And even if she doesn't consciously remember it, she will subconsciously remember it and may start resenting you for it even if she doesn't know why. Nomad has some good ideas there, you two could really do amazing things together with this as long as you use it with mutual respect for each other.
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      I wish i could have this ability to control my friends dreams.

      But on the part about you having sex with her without her knowing sounds kinda...wrong.
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      I appreciate the feedback. I actually tell my friend everything that happens, everything. It actually all started with her having very bad dreams that I woke her out of. Then after trying to figure out the demons in her dreams that haunt her our conversations, her in dream world and me awake started to make me a bit curious of how much I could find out about her dreams. Then after awhile I realized that I was able to move with her in her dreams and paint her world. I have had always a very strong intuitive nature. I am able to dowse water very acuratly. I have always had an open mind to things that might not seem real to many. One of the replies was that it was as if I was able to move the dream as if in a hypnotic state of sugestion, is this the real picture I need to research. I tried years ago to research how I can hypnotize someone, but could not find anything real and concrete that told me how to do it. Any Ideas?

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      Quote Originally Posted by MIKEACE View Post
      I appreciate the feedback. I actually tell my friend everything that happens, everything. It actually all started with her having very bad dreams that I woke her out of. Then after trying to figure out the demons in her dreams that haunt her our conversations, her in dream world and me awake started to make me a bit curious of how much I could find out about her dreams. Then after awhile I realized that I was able to move with her in her dreams and paint her world. I have had always a very strong intuitive nature. I am able to dowse water very acuratly. I have always had an open mind to things that might not seem real to many. One of the replies was that it was as if I was able to move the dream as if in a hypnotic state of sugestion, is this the real picture I need to research. I tried years ago to research how I can hypnotize someone, but could not find anything real and concrete that told me how to do it. Any Ideas?
      Is she your girlfriend our your friend?
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      girlfriend but also a true firend

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      when she awakens she verifies everything you have led her through?

      i would definitely lead her into the awareness that she was dreaming and i would definitely seek permission from her to be involved in her dreams in such a way. you want to do it with her blessing because she trusts you, not inducing any kind of "worry" about it.
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      She does not have to verify it even though she does, because she talks aloud with me the whole time she is dreaming. She is talking in her sleep.

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      Why is she worried?
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