How could I see my sister/brother in my dream, they're dead?

My brother and sister died in the womb before I was born, we were going to be triplets.

Sometimes I sit and wonder about how my life could have been had they lived, even though I've never met them or seen them, sometimes I just feel them :/ I miss them so much, I've never missed anyone this much in my life, but them I feel like a part of me is missing and I'm wondering if my dreams could help fill that void to an extent.

I'm christian if that matters so I believe in things like this (to an extent...), not something omg magic but anything that involves subtle spirituality I sort of trust in I guess, I'm wondering if there is any way I can make a 'spiritual connection' with my brother and sister and maybe talk to them or see them or something, I really want to see them so badly and I miss them :( I want to talk to them for the first time and it would mean the world to me!

Okay, the spiritual connection gets stronger with your will , faith and your feelings, you can visualize your feelings interacting with the feelings of your brothers/sisters, remembering them in a dream requieres a lot of practice, recall, lucidity and control. There's something I've figured that you can be at various places at the same time in dreams but your conciouness may be only in one place, so even though you can't remember you might have shared with them. Learning a lot about dreaming takes a long time and dedication.

Try and focus in having your conciousness in the place where your dreams involve your brother and sister. Find them by feelings and do some fun stuff

I'll try a bit of scientific approach here and say that whatever you do you'll get what your brain thinks your brother/sister would've looked like, hormone-drug you into thinking it's them et voila, you have "seen" a dead sibling.

Also if you plan on doing it anyways and believing in it, you should know that it can't be spiritualism if you use what your God gave you (the ability to do, well, almost anything in your dreams).

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Originally Posted by Blacklight

Also if you plan on doing it anyways and believing in it, you should know that it can't be spiritualism if you use what your God gave you (the ability to do, well, almost anything in your dreams).

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You aren't making any sense at all pal. I loled when I read this though xD

I think Robert Bruce said that it is not that easy to contact deceased people through OBE's. You you will need some experience to be able to have a more objective experience which is not (as much) interfered with your imagination. Contacting deceased people or guides is not "for fun" maybe you are not ready for it? but i would say go for it!

I'm sorry for your loss. :hug: Even though you never met your brother and sister in life, I believe there is a close bond between twins, triplets, etc. that forms before birth. So it is still a loss. :hug: I think it is entirely possible to visit lost loved ones in the dream state, and I don't feel there is anything magical or anti-Christian about it. I believe I have spoken to both my grandmother and my brother in dreams after they passed on. I would say to just make your intent to visit them clear in your mind, perhaps ask God for help meeting up with them, and then if you are meant to meet with them it will happen. Good luck. :)

I am never one to discount the idea of spirit beings visiting you in your dream state. But,,, depending on the dreams, I personally think the matter may have a bit of a more complex possibility.

Have you ever considered the idea of many worlds? String theory? The idea that thier are a multitude of you's, living a multitude of different possible lives in alternate realities?

What if in not just one, but many of those alternatate worlds, your siblings lived, and as such, the experiences you dream are actual bleed thoughs of those alternate realities? I believe if alternate realities are the case, then the dream world just might be the bond, that ties all those diffrent you's together. Just a thought, but, I feel this is a possible explanation for many cases of dejevu and that often experienced strange feeling of knowing some one in your dream so well, but upon waking, not knowing them at all in this world.
It's just a thought. But, i don't see how it would not be comforting.

For the record, I do think it is very possible for spirits to visit us in dreams.
So I hope you don't think I'm discounting that possibility out of hand.
Take care, and good luck.

Sorry dude happened to me and that's why me n my sis dont have a younger brother

@Dreamharder

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