Wedding Dream

This is a friend of mine's dream. She doesn't have an account here so I'm posting for her, mainly because the dream revolves around me and mutual acquaintance or two of ours. At first, it may seem to be in the wrong forum, but you'll see why it's here in the end.

Note: the dreamer wants to be a wedding planner when she's older.

The dream started in what was a personal office of hers in downtown Charlotte, North Carolina. All people in this dream are currently teenagers living in other parts of the state. She was talking to me over Skype. The next thing she remembers is sitting at lunch with me and my best friend at an Italian restaurant, where we made some small talk, before going back to her office to plan some stuff for the wedding between me and my friend (who is a girl). In the office, we talked about what kind of flowers we wanted, my fiance had her final dress fitting, etc. After this, she went back to her apartment, where she lived with a guy named Austin who's a senior at her current school (she's a freshman). They've talked a few times, she wouldn't say she has feelings for him, but admits there might be a little crush going on. My fiance and I lived in the same building. The next thing she remembers is being at a big church for the wedding, where there were decorations of gold and all shades of purple. This was followed by the reception.

The weird thing is, I've been best friends with the fiance in my dream for a year now, talking literally every day. Over the summer, I fell for her, and talked about it a little bit with the friend who dreamed all this last night. However, the dreamer has never seen us together, and has only met each of us once, and on separate occasions, not together.

When I fell for the girl over the summer, I asked her out. The thing is, she's not allowed to date, so she turned me down (conveniently not saying whether she had similar feelings for me or not). In the past few weeks, the feelings have returned, and last night I had a conversation with a totally separate friend. I brought up the summer/fiance girl, and he brought up a girl he's been off and on with for three years. We've had my crushes over the years, but both say that we've never felt about someone the way we do about these two girls.

Two nights ago, on the 29th, I laid in bed for about two hours thinking about the girl. We were going to hang out the next day, and I just imagined myself as a 25 year old asking her to marry me, telling her I don't know how I'd provide for her (I'm an actor, and she's considering pursuing it too), but that we'd have each other and be happy. I pictured us living together in an apartment in the downtown area of where she lives and where I moved from earlier this year. I told my friend this the next night (last night), and he relayed similar thoughts to me about the girl he's got feelings for right now.

This was about two in the morning, long after the dreamer had gone to sleep. What's weird is, I haven't talked with the dreamer about the girl since the summer, the last she heard being that I was over her. The feelings have never been stronger than they were in the past few days, and I've never imagined proposing to anyone. In addition, remember how I used the age of 25 when talking to my friend? The dreamer imagined everyone in their mid-twenties. She told me she thought the pastor that married me and my fiance was my dad, even though she's never seen him before (for the record, he is a minister). I sent her a picture and she's positive that's him.

What's intrigued me so much about this situation is the truth being my feelings for this girl are different than anything I've felt before, I've been having those thoughts, and the dreamer was asleep when me and my friend talked. When I took into account the gold and purple decorations at the wedding, I realized that gold can mean the dreamer has a spiritual healing gift, with an indigo shade of purple indicating clairvoyance, others hinting at spiritual leadership or authority. She also reports dreaming "every night". That was her immediate answer when I asked what her dream frequency was.

What do you guys think? In addition to interpretation, I'm looking to thoughts on the possible connection between the conversation I had with my friend and the dream of the other. If you have any questions about the dream, I won't hesitate to ask her. Thanks so much.