Thread: Plan to make my Girlfriend Lucid

Unfortunatly I don't have tips. I have Ben trying do do this for a couple weeks with failed outcome.

Last week I was lucid dreaming in my bedroom and she was sleeping on the bed. I woke her up and told her we were in a shared lucid dream. I told her it was important she remembers. She agreed she would remember so I quickly woke myself, I reached over and shook her awake and asked her if she remembers the dream, she tells me yes and starts explaining the dreem to me. Unfortunatley it was a false awakening and she really had no idea.

Just thought I would share... Good luck

1. tell her you are going to do it. If you tell her, it will establish intention for both of you to remember the dream and make it more likely to happen around the time you wake up.

2. make sure that she knows that if you tell her shes in a dream to do an rc. because people in nonlucid dreams can really stupid and not become lucid even when you tell them its a dream.

3. try to establish intention before you fall to sleep. Like a MILD. But establish your intention to share a dream with her. You don't even need to be lucid.

4. stabalize the dream. Often when I go in non lucid dreamers dreams the dream is really unvivid or fuzzy. touch things and use your own intention to make the dream solid and feel and look real. (this would probably only be neccesary if you were lucid and made it into her dream)

5. Have faith that all this real. If you doubt it, you probably will have a hard time with dream sharing.

Also to knows shes the real deal. Look into her eyes. You can feel her presence. dcs don't really have that. They feel more empty normally.

Originally Posted by saltyseedog

1. tell her you are going to do it. If you tell her, it will establish intention for both of you to remember the dream and make it more likely to happen around the time you wake up.

2. make sure that she knows that if you tell her shes in a dream to do an rc. because people in nonlucid dreams can really stupid and not become lucid even when you tell them its a dream.

3. try to establish intention before you fall to sleep. Like a MILD. But establish your intention to share a dream with her. You don't even need to be lucid.

4. stabalize the dream. Often when I go in non lucid dreamers dreams the dream is really unvivid or fuzzy. touch things and use your own intention to make the dream solid and feel and look real. (this would probably only be neccesary if you were lucid and made it into her dream)

5. Have faith that all this real. If you doubt it, you probably will have a hard time with dream sharing.

Also to knows shes the real deal. Look into her eyes. You can feel her presence. dcs don't really have that. They feel more empty normally.

Last night I had a dream we were sitting in my garden, talking and laughing occasionally but mainly just enjoying being with each other, it felt so calming and so real (this was non-lucid). Today my girlfriend said she had a lucid dream where we were together, although she couldn't remember the details. Whether or not that was a shared experience I think I would be able to tell if it was really her, and I'm willing to completely believe in shared dreaming. Thanks for the advice