Telepathic experience - almost scary

I'm relatively new on the forum and usually lurk but had to tell someone about this.

So I was about to go to sleep and thought of someone I know, only online. It's sort of like a long distance relationship which developed very fast - I was not planning on getting involved in that way.
I felt this person's energies - and then got a vivid mental image, as in remote viewing, of a place. Turned out that I got all the details of this place I had never been to right.
Then this person dreamed one of something I did and it was accurate too.

I was half asleep and half awake, so it was sort of between a lucid dream and hypnagogic hallucination or remote viewing - hope I'm not breaking any guidelines by posting here. His was in a non-lucid dream.

Moderators - if it should go somewhere else, sorry, please move this.

This is scaring me. Although I tell myself that these experiences are natural and that we condition ourselves to not be open to them, this is almost too much. Plus I worry that if the energetic connections are this strong, when the relationship ends, as will be inevitable (we are in different countries so it's not going to work), that it will be devastating.

I've had lucid dreams all my life, and some telepathy and shared dreams, but this is something else.

If anyone has any advice, that would be great. Thanks.

Why do you find this scary, why is it too much? I'm just trying to understand and maybe help you understand better yourself. Can you ask yourself these questions? If you find yourself giving a negative answer, ask why you feel that way until you seem to find the root of the issue. If you still cannot see why it is bothering you so much, post back and say why that is, this where it's great to be able to talk to other human beings about your issues, and you might just find out you've got nothing to be afraid of.

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Originally Posted by Astralstar

I'm relatively new on the forum and usually lurk but had to tell someone about this.

So I was about to go to sleep and thought of someone I know, only online. It's sort of like a long distance relationship which developed very fast - I was not planning on getting involved in that way.
I felt this person's energies - and then got a vivid mental image, as in remote viewing, of a place. Turned out that I got all the details of this place I had never been to right.
Then this person dreamed one of something I did and it was accurate too.

I was half asleep and half awake, so it was sort of between a lucid dream and hypnagogic hallucination or remote viewing - hope I'm not breaking any guidelines by posting here. His was in a non-lucid dream.

Moderators - if it should go somewhere else, sorry, please move this.

This is scaring me. Although I tell myself that these experiences are natural and that we condition ourselves to not be open to them, this is almost too much. Plus I worry that if the energetic connections are this strong, when the relationship ends, as will be inevitable (we are in different countries so it's not going to work), that it will be devastating.

I've had lucid dreams all my life, and some telepathy and shared dreams, but this is something else.

If anyone has any advice, that would be great. Thanks.

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I've just connected with someone on this forum recently, and discovered some shared experiences. I'm like you. All my life I've had abilities. And please know that this new growth is nothing to be afraid of.

A couple years ago I had someone very close to me die of cancer. She had abilities too. And the night she died I felt her energy, surrounding me. But I wasn't aware of exactly what had transpired until the following day. I knew it was just an excess of familiar energy being sent by someone, or represented by someone, but when I heard about her death and the time of death, I knew.

We're living in a different age now. Where people are becoming more aware of the world around them.

And Like snoop says, ask yourself the hard questions, and talk to the people around you in your life right now. You will find the answers you seek.

-Rayleigh Light
Author, "TB: Welcome to the Sphere"

Thanks. That reply helped me a lot - I asked myself why fear, and all I could come up with was that this is a very intimate level of communication... letting someone into your mind and heart makes you so much more vulnerable than does any physical closeness... at least that is my experience. But there is a level of trust there. There is also the fear of loss because the connection is so strong. It's happened again and there was less fear, even a comforting feeling about it. I'll take it as it happens and trust that these experiences have their own safeguards built in.

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Thanks, Rayleigh. It is so good to be able to share these experiences. I've had what many would call anomalous experiences my whole life, and have been afraid because there were so few who had. But you are right, people are becoming more aware and online we can connect to others who are like us. I am finding some answers right here.

What happened between you and your friend is beautiful. We truly are eternal - consciousness never dies.

"Love transcends the change we call death." - Edgar Cayce

Hi i have some experince with similar things

Try to have intention leave connection open only when it is needed and safe some people have this setup automaticky some not . It can safe you form some potential trouble.
You can actualy setup it like firewall ,restrict type of comunication/information give a ban ...
You can experince emotion with this conncetion very deeply and usuly if they resonate and bouth you have 0 stress in body it cause feedback and get you to very high state this basicly what love is unconditional sharing.Unfortunately there is also a negative side it may transmit a negative emotion, thought, signs of illnes.. or you can lost track which emotion are yours

That's so good to hear Astralstar :).

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Originally Posted by ATA

Hi i have some experince with similar things

Try to have intention leave connection open only when it is needed and safe some people have this setup automaticky some not . It can safe you form some potential trouble.
You can actualy setup it like firewall ,restrict type of comunication/information give a ban ...
You can experince emotion with this conncetion very deeply and usuly if they resonate and bouth you have 0 stress in body it cause feedback and get you to very high state this basicly what love is unconditional sharing.Unfortunately there is also a negative side it may transmit a negative emotion, thought, signs of illnes.. or you can lost track which emotion are yours

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LOL! Funny story about this actually! A friend of mine shook this guy's hand once and got the vision of a bunch of dead bodies. She was freaking out for about a week, trying to decide what to do with this information. Then she found out he was a mortician by trade. :)

On the less positive side of things I have seen what happens to people when they don't "ground" or "firewall" those negative emotions that don't belong to them. Tumours. Cancer. It's toxicity that you can't hold onto. That you shouldn't be keeping in. Controlling this comes with practice, and is very easy to pick up.

What experiences ATA?

-Rayleigh Light
Author, "TB: Welcome to the Sphere"

Lots of experince but hard to describe becouse my bad english.

I use telepathy/empathy almoust daily , i usualy use it to help people with some problems . Its like reprogram brain found yout source of various beliefs,emotion and help to repair system.
I do not use remote viewing much but also have few experince with that.Have many good and bad experinces its take time to learn how to controll it.I usualy use questions yes/no comunication with words or sentences work only sometimes and i usualy comunicate with subconscious mind of person.


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I still dount have good scintific proof but from my experince its about 0,1% chance to get this result simply by chance . My "powers" still not good enougt to scintific testing but something above the chnace is definitly going on.

I also get those RV images from time to time w/o trying. Sometimes I'll call someone up that can help verify them images. Sometimes I'm right on and others not so much. I think that RV is the easiest to develop. You can google "remote viewing test" and find a handful of sites that offer tests to improve your RV skills. I personally do not do well with pictures of things. I do better with real time places. For example, if someone made a target of something that sits on top of their livingroom tv stand, I would have a better outcome than the types of tests that you can do online. It's actually kind of fun so try not to worry about it. If you know your intentions are good, you should not worry about this gift.
A member here..WakingNomad used to have a RV thread. It was interesting and I wish he would get to feeling better and come back. He would prolly have some good advice to put you more at ease.
Best of luck,
Kadie

From my experience from teleptatahy nad RV you receive concept not image/precept this is very important.Best is use pure concepts and not try to see images .If you try see image you must create it from concept usualy without enought information and result can be very different from target.

Its like if target is apple tree you first receive concept tree is best try precive this concept if try crate image it pick moust probable varinat in the momnet and aroud christmas it be probably spurce .Once image is created is hard to change it , is possible reset and start over i need some practice without it try RV few times .Beliefs and porobabylity strongkly influnece your "translator".

I have also hypothesis why is used concept and not visual data like "pixels".I suppose information get to brain rpobaly by some quantum proces on neurones in cortex . One neurone can code one concept so you need change activity only in one neurone but if you try precieve true image like pixels youmust simulate hudred of thousands of neurones in primary visual cortex in very precize way. Is very uneffective way to comunicate .

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Originally Posted by ATA

Hi i have some experince with similar things

Try to have intention leave connection open only when it is needed and safe some people have this setup automaticky some not . It can safe you form some potential trouble.
You can actualy setup it like firewall ,restrict type of comunication/information give a ban ...
You can experince emotion with this conncetion very deeply and usuly if they resonate and bouth you have 0 stress in body it cause feedback and get you to very high state this basicly what love is unconditional sharing.Unfortunately there is also a negative side it may transmit a negative emotion, thought, signs of illnes.. or you can lost track which emotion are yours

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Thanks, ATA. Any advice on how to ground so that it doesn't happen all the time? There is such a strong bond that i might be losing track of which energies are mine already... or maybe not, it's hard to tell.

Its hard to write universal method becouse i dont know your belief systems and setups, Fastest way is try few methods and watch the response . I can try look telepathicly and help you with that if you want write me PM.

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Originally Posted by Astralstar

If anyone has any advice, that would be great. Thanks.

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A couple of relatively quick comments, without reading the rest of the thread....

For me, the fact that the other person is a new acquaintance who lives somewhere else is a big reason for the strength of the experience. Things come through in dreams that can't come through externally or through your memories, because of the distance, and because you don't have a pile of externally acquired images in relation to the other person. For me, such experiences tend to mostly stop the first few with a particular person.

For me, the strength of such an experience also doesn't have much to do with my compatibility with the other person as a friend, so it is easy to get hurt. For me that difficulty is the same with or without the overtly telepathetic images though, I do the same thing emotionally anyway. I also tend to have a lot of trouble letting go of the other person psychologically, though this seems to have improved quite a bit with age. Again this happens anyway with the openness, and has no direct connection to the dream. Probably the hardest heartbreak I ever had was in relation to someone who I didn't ever dream about. So if you're like me, the dreams themselves aren't anything to worry about. Maybe becoming more aware of who you are and comfortable with yourself could help with the dependency, I think things improved for me a lot when I recognized that other people aren't a very reliable measure of my self-worth. I hope that helps some.

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Originally Posted by shadowofwind

For me, the strength of such an experience also doesn't have much to do with my compatibility with the other person as a friend, so it is easy to get hurt. For me that difficulty is the same with or without the overtly telepathetic images though, I do the same thing emotionally anyway. I also tend to have a lot of trouble letting go of the other person psychologically, though this seems to have improved quite a bit with age. Again this happens anyway with the openness, and has no direct connection to the dream. Probably the hardest heartbreak I ever had was in relation to someone who I didn't ever dream about. So if you're like me, the dreams themselves aren't anything to worry about. Maybe becoming more aware of who you are and comfortable with yourself could help with the dependency, I think things improved for me a lot when I recognized that other people aren't a very reliable measure of my self-worth. I hope that helps some.

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Thanks. I think that I had a hard time letting go of people I feel close to is a big part of the fear. I do tend to get lost in other people and to depend on them emotionally and with this person it seems to be happening for both of us, and very fast. I feel that eventually it will have to end and that really scares me. So all I can do is take it one moment at a time.