Thread: Dream Woman

First of all, I would say that six years after having a dream, you have already altered the original memory considerably. I think that you are very attached to the dream memory, and the significance you felt for it then. Now that you have found someone who looks similar enough to your original dream projection, you have fixed her with this almost metaphysical significance. I think it is incredibly unrealistic, that you are setting yourself up for disappointment, and furthermore, it's a disservice to her. You're in love with your ideas about her, not the person herself.

As for how you are feeling this? It's what poets call "love at first sight" and we generally today think of as "unhealthy infatuation."