Haha hey, it's me, your adoptee. Fancy that...found this post randomly, and it applies to me. Anywho,
I think maybe I will be able to help you as much as you can help me. This happens to be the one things I seem to do very well!
It started when I moved in to a single room efficiency with my two friends Cal and Rene. Rene introduced me to Carlos Casteneda, and I began to pick up my lucid dreaming techniques again. I was dating Cal at the time, Cal and I have since broken up, and now Rene and I are together. Heh..yeah..anyway, so! After like 2 weeks of the three of us sleeping in one large room, we began sharing dreams. Not just talking about them -we would recall our dreams to eachother, but after a while we actually had the same dreams at night. Never "exactly" the same, but involving the same characters, or settings, or plot lines. If one of us dreamt of the other two, the other two also dreamt of all of us, etc. Our dreams proceeded to become more and more similar, and then Cal and I moved out. Cal and I continued to have the same dreams, but Rene appeared in them less frequently, and dreamt of us less often.
Then I moved to Vermont for my summer job, and left Cal and Rene in Texas.
There I decided to try meeting up in our dreams again, this time as an experiment to see if it could be done over great distances. 2100 miles, to be precise. I told my intentions to Rene and he agreed to try to. It worked! With less frequency...but it worked none the less. Then suddenly, a dear friend of mine, and Rene's, passed away. That day I dreamt of Rene, and Rene dreamt of me staring him in the face as though trying to say something. The next day he wrote to me and demanded to know what I wanted to tell him. I then had to pass along the message I had just received about our friend.
Rene and I now live together, and sleep together, and we dream almost every night of eachother in various settings, and often the dreams are shockingly similar. One night Rene woke me up and said "hey, you keep walking away from me in my dreams, come back." I said, "Oh, sorry Rene, I'll come back.". i was dreaming of a revolution conspiracy that involved our friends. We went back to sleep, and the next morning he woke me up and said "you came back in my dream! you made me cornbread muffins and said -'here's some conspiracy cornbread'!"
That was fun.
Ok, now, here's my last example, I promise. I have this crazy spiritual friend who's been travelling in Indonesia this past year, meditating, and whatnot. We were writing to eachother and I decided that I needed to see him. Since I'm in TX and have no money to travel I suggested we attempt trying to meet in dreamtime to "catch up". he said he would try, but did not trust his dream travel abilities very well. So, I said I would come to him.
That very night, I dreamt that I found myself in a jungle with my friend. We talked for a long time in the dream, and even had sex, and it was even good. haha.
So, here's what I suggest for you. If you can get back to your boy boy, the physical presence of your bodies in proximity will aid your dreamtime meetings. It's much easier to find someone in non-physical reality, when your physical realities are touching. However, if you can't get to him now physically, I think you can get to him in dreamtime. Just will it into existence. Find him.
I wish my suggestions could be better, but I don't know how else to do it really, and really i'm not sure I know how to do it all. I just do. You will too I bet.
Good luck.
Much Love.
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