Originally Posted by
Neo
If you two have correlating dream experiences then its quite likely a shared dream. By reading previous posts of supposed shared dreams, there seems to be some distortion of the two person's perception of the shared dream. for example, a couple people in my family had this dream as follows:
one member said that they were in florida, that there was a hurrican/very strong winds, and that they were been blown into the air, except they said they were holding onto the hands of the other family member. they eventually said the storm winds became so strong that they blew away into the air.
the other member that was holding onto them recalled that there were winds and that they did not let go. and they recognized the winds and the other member being blown into the air.
in both cases, they recall the same event taking place although they may not get it down to the exact details. but they are both mystified by it, and believe that they might have had a shared dream. i think they did.
in your case, if your dreams match up, then yeah it is most likely a shared dream. another thing to keep in mind, is that dream characters all have an active role in the dream; that is to say that you (the dreamer) may remain quiet, but still get interaction with dream characters. everything in a dream revolves around the dreamer. the same with dream characters, like the relationship is one-sided.
now i theorize that shared dreams will most likely have equal participation, if not similar participation/interaction betwen the two/several people(s) involved. like, there would be more "realistic"interaction as if the two people were in real life, except acting according to what is happening in the dream.
anyway, thats just my thoughts on this.[/b]