My Story - COMENTS PLEASE

I was in a deep coma. On October 27th 2004 due to a bad car accident. I was placed on a DNR. Up to this point I had overcome Sepsis, Double pneumonia, Adult Respiratory Disease, Non-clotting of blood, and a complete liver, bowel shut down. They told my parents that they wanted to turn off life support because I would never come out of this. And if I did I would be a vegetable. My father refused, but they did agree on the DNR. They said that I had a 95% chance of going into cardiac arrest. They brought everyone up to say good by. About 11ish that night they rushed me to surgery thinking I had a bowel obstruction. (??? why, if I was on a DNR?- No one can answer). Well on the table I had again dropped my blood oxygen, heart rate, and there were little to brain function. Only for a minute or so. Then I returned to normal, and made it through surgery - a week later they decided to give me nutrition, and I came out of my coma, and they kept me in a drug induced coma for a few weeks. On Thanksgiving I was transferred to a rehabilitation hospital, and Today I have very little resounding effects.

Now, that was where I was at on the outside. But on the inside I was everywhere. But mainly I was in a desert with this old Hispanic woman in a red dress dabbing my forehead with a whit gauze cloth. There were others around me. Very distraught.

It's like I lived other lives. None were my own. The people I knew, but the places were foreign. I was in Mexico a lot (Or what I deciphered to be Mexico). I contracted a Mexican STD and had to keep getting shots because I kept turning green. I lived in a city of "infected" people. I lived in houses at times that were run down, walls missing shacks. I lived in one apartment with some old people, and the walls were only half high.

I met a man and fell in love. He was my - and I knew this - exact. I think he may have been Jesus. That's the feeling I have now about it.

I saw my deceased grandmother. She was irritated with me and said she was not here for me, that she was there to get someone else. (My grandfather died shortly after I was admitted to the hospital). There are some other things that happened that I can not accurately put into words.

BUT the one thing that is miraculous is the Old Hispanic woman. Now, 6 months ago I started dating a guy that I had known for about 4 years. Well I went to his home and in his room there was a picture of his mother. IT WAS HER! I asked him about her, and he said she had passed away in October of 04. I did not say anything to him about my experience. Other things have happened. I found out that she had been buried in a red dress. Now, I finally told John of this, and all he had to say was - well, that sounds like her, always helping someone.

Today, me and John are married. And magical things are happening. I am so afraid to tell anyone because I don't want to scare anyone.

Wow, what a story! It gave me the chills! Just a side note for anyone who doesn't know what "DNR" is - Do Not Resusitate.

Anyway, maybe you were seeing past lives in these different foreign places? And you knew John's mother from a different life. I guess your relationship with him was meant to be - a connection more than most would think.

I can't believe you made a full recovery after all you've been through. I guess you're still with us for a reason. Thank you for sharing this story :)

Thank you for the wonderful comments. It was a trip - when I think about the placed that I went in my dreams I get this strange comfortable feeling.

i can just say i would like to send you a big HUG :hug:

That's a very powerful experience! And it does not scare me. I think it is very possible that you met the mother of your husband. Being in a coma would have meant that your brain had little activity, meaning you were probably in a theta brainwave (or lower) state, hovering around in all kinds of images (dreams). That woman might have felt it was a good idea to come and support you, because she somehow knew you would be with her son later on (who knows what you can know after you die anyway...).

Congrats on your marriage by the way :)

that is so incredible... near death experiences are another topic that fascinates me, and i believe that stuff like that can happen. thats seriously so incredibly. i think you and your man were definitely meant to be!