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    Recurring DC who I'm married to (3)

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    LaCasati
    , 06-12-2015 at 07:50 PM (683 Views)
    This is the third dream in which the DC implied to be my dream-world husband appears. Note that in previous dreams, I had not felt repulsed by him. In this dream, and every one involving him since, his age has changed from in his 30s to in his 50s.

    I am walking through the gardens of a mental institution with my mother. The day is pleasant and sunny, the flowers are more realistic-looking and less overblown and lurid than they usually are in my dreams. We walk through a tunnel of trees towards the entrance of the institution, talking about my marriage. My mother outright condemns my choice of partner, in particular the age gap between us (I am 20, he is in his late 30s). I, thinking about my marriage, am more concerned about the difficult relationship between my husband and I, than I am about the age difference.

    We come to the entrance, there are two cars with chauffeurs waiting outside. The double doors open, and my husband runs out. I am startled by how he has aged, he is now in his early 50s although I am still 20, and haven’t aged. He runs over to me, making a fuss of me, bowing repeatedly and kissing my hand. I am disgusted by his behaviour: embarrassed because he’s making a scene in front of my mother and all the orderlies and I have to stand there and take it to be polite, and anxious because I know he’s only pretending to be respectful towards me and I’m wondering what he’ll do when we’re alone.

    My mother is driven away in the first car. The institution staff go back inside, and I watch the doors close as my 50-something husband kisses and bites my neck and whispers threats in my ear. I let him get into the car first (it’s a red car). I take my time about getting into the car with him, watching him watching me through the window. The dream ends shortly after I get in the car.

    This is the forum post in which I mentioned this series of dreams: http://www.dreamviews.com/general-lu...m-married.html
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    1. DawnEye11's Avatar
      Wow, things changed quickly. There is a lesson in this one for sure. Is there something currently making you feel like you dedicated your time for but you regret it? Its possible that this dream could just be a possibility dream. Were you thinking about what kind of dc he was before you had this dream? If you were maybe your dreaming mind just decided to portray the ugly side of this character instead of the attractive side.
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    2. LaCasati's Avatar
      Before this dream, I'd been thinking about how odd it was that I'd never had such an instantaneous, gut reaction to a DC like that. In the past DCs have just populated my dreams, sometimes they'd help me along on quests. In both dreams, the feelings of either attraction or disgust was very strong. I've been scared of DCs before, but usually it's something logical: ie they're chasing me with an axe or threatening to hurt my family. Any fear of DCs in the past has been situational, rather than a dread of the actual DC themselves. Which is what this was. DawnEye I think you're on to something with the dream choosing to portray the DC's ugly side. For what reason, I'm still not sure.
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    3. DawnEye11's Avatar
      Before this dream, I'd been thinking about how odd it was that I'd never had such an instantaneous, gut reaction to a DC like that. In the past DCs have just populated my dreams, sometimes they'd help me along on quests. In both dreams, the feelings of either attraction or disgust was very strong. I've been scared of DCs before, but usually it's something logical: ie they're chasing me with an axe or threatening to hurt my family. Any fear of DCs in the past has been situational, rather than a dread of the actual DC themselves. Which is what this was. DawnEye I think you're on to something with the dream choosing to portray the DC's ugly side. For what reason, I'm still not sure.
      : 3 O.k. Well, Hopefully someone will be able to help you find out why. If not don't stress too much about it. I once had a dream where my dream guide pretended to be a nice guy but ended up killing me in the end. It was a non lucid dream but i don't think much of it. ^^"
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