I remember somebody else had the same problem I read on another site. They were referred here: Erotic Lucid Dreaming: Exploring Sex & Spirit | The Dream Studies Portal Seems to align with your problem. Hope it helps! |
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JML! This happens to me all of the time. Firstly, I have this thing for finding guys in my dreams and doing stuff. Like, if I have no plans in my LD, this is what I do. Find a cute guy, etc. This part is quite easy for me. I spot one, or I ask a DC, and then I find one. I then always seem to wake up after kissing the guy 3 times (I just need to learn to focus better-though I have done this dozens of times! I can't help doing this in my LD's ). Well, my system is waking up, and then I end up falling asleep (probably not quite a DEILD), but I still am lucid right away in the next dream, a WILD I guess. Thing is, when that happens, I look for the guy I was with, but something always goes wrong. |
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Last edited by lucidreamsavy; 08-11-2010 at 05:14 AM.
If you see a strange typo in my post, blame my iPad for that.
Short story series about LD'ing:
http://www.dreamviews.com/artists-corner/140705-short-story-series-community-involvement-needed.html#post1990516
I remember somebody else had the same problem I read on another site. They were referred here: Erotic Lucid Dreaming: Exploring Sex & Spirit | The Dream Studies Portal Seems to align with your problem. Hope it helps! |
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i have a similar problem, but unlike yours it is one girl that isn't random, i know her in real life. if you have an interest its in the control thread under want it too much. my solution was to be patient and try it over and over again and let it play itself out. |
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Yeah, I tried that 5 times with sunglasses dude. This was over a course of two weeks. I stopped because not only did it get boring, but I saw no point in doing it anymore, the point wore off. I was starting to forget what he looked like . |
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If you see a strange typo in my post, blame my iPad for that.
Short story series about LD'ing:
http://www.dreamviews.com/artists-corner/140705-short-story-series-community-involvement-needed.html#post1990516
What's your ultimate intention? To fuck them? I'm not sure I follow. |
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~XeL's DJ~
~Adopted by Cygnus~
No. Everything but that, actually. |
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If you see a strange typo in my post, blame my iPad for that.
Short story series about LD'ing:
http://www.dreamviews.com/artists-corner/140705-short-story-series-community-involvement-needed.html#post1990516
Have you had ANY successful dreams where you manage to stay in the dream while kissing them? |
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Last edited by XeL; 08-11-2010 at 11:15 PM.
~XeL's DJ~
~Adopted by Cygnus~
Yeah, I know how to fix it and what to do differently. I have started to feel it going once while kissing a guy in my dream, and I told myself instead of waking up I'd appear at the computer in my house, and I did! I know I have to focus, but I always get lost in the moment. THAT I do know how to fix, but I often forget it and don't pay attention at the time. |
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If you see a strange typo in my post, blame my iPad for that.
Short story series about LD'ing:
http://www.dreamviews.com/artists-corner/140705-short-story-series-community-involvement-needed.html#post1990516
Number of Respectable Lucid Dreams: 2
Lucid Dream Goals :
Have a Lucid Dream [X] Fly [X] WILD (Wake-Initiated Lucid Dream) [ ] MILD (Mnemonically Induced Lucid Dream) [X]
WBTB (Wake Back To Bed) [X] Enter a Video Game [ ] Drive My Dream Car [ ]
~XeL's DJ~
~Adopted by Cygnus~
Huh. I've never thought of that before. Let's see if I remember for next time . |
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If you see a strange typo in my post, blame my iPad for that.
Short story series about LD'ing:
http://www.dreamviews.com/artists-corner/140705-short-story-series-community-involvement-needed.html#post1990516
How often are you guys able to get lucid? |
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Number of Respectable Lucid Dreams: 2
Lucid Dream Goals :
Have a Lucid Dream [X] Fly [X] WILD (Wake-Initiated Lucid Dream) [ ] MILD (Mnemonically Induced Lucid Dream) [X]
WBTB (Wake Back To Bed) [X] Enter a Video Game [ ] Drive My Dream Car [ ]
Few times a week. |
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~XeL's DJ~
~Adopted by Cygnus~
When I'm on DV and stuff, a few times a week, and when I'm not maybe once a week. Usually if I get one and it's the summer and I fall back to sleep, I'll get another (hence the looking for the guy again-it comes naturally to me). |
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If you see a strange typo in my post, blame my iPad for that.
Short story series about LD'ing:
http://www.dreamviews.com/artists-corner/140705-short-story-series-community-involvement-needed.html#post1990516
Same here! :/ im currently looking for my DG whose a guy, and i once spent 7 lucid dreams trying to find him and failing every time X_X |
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Am currently Learning Effective Dream control. yes, i suck that much at it. Suggestions are Welcome...
Only those who attempt the absurd will achieve the impossible.
I think it's in my basement... let me go upstairs and check.
~M. C. Escher
DILDS: 20+ (lost count >>)
WILDS: 1-2 (cant remember) lol
Goals: Grow Wings [X] Fly [X] See Bf [] Talk to my Dream Guide [] Talk to random DC [] Breathe underwater [X] Go to the past/future [] shapeshift [] explore universe/space [] go tiny/HUGE [] See farires/dragons [] Turn invisible [] rescue a prince []
My DJ!!!
Stand where you are and expect them to tap you on the shoulder. Imagine what they'll look like and what they'll be doing as you turn around and see them. It's the easiest method I've used that doesn't involve searching and trying to get the guy out of a sheet of paper. |
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We all live in a kind of continuous dream. When we wake, it is because something,
some event, some pinprick even, disturbs the edges of what we have taken as reality.
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