another dream sex question
I know there are tons of them already, but I couldn't find an answer to mine, so here's my question:
I have tried dream sex too, and every time I do, I can always manage to make the person appear, but then it becomes more of a fantasy than reality. I am still lucid dreaming but it's almost like I'm dreaming that I'm fantasizing about sex, like the person I'm with isn't really there, which obviously isn't satisfying or what I want at all. Something I've thought about is that, just like in real life, because I'm the one controlling whether he's there or not, he isn't really there. It's like I'd have to wait for him to appear on his own, by his "choice" or it isn't the same. Any tips?