my first bit of control

Iv had 3 lucids now but last night was the first I could control to an extent I threw grocery bags in the air and turned them into dogs then decided I was gonna fly so I ran to jump through and out a window and I faceplanted into the window..why cant I fly:( also I expected to go through the glass like Iv heard of ppl going through walls so why did I stop I think I lost a tiny bit of confidence is that why? 1 more thing it was kind of a blurry lucid..whys that? Hit me with your knowledge my fellow dreamers

Hi there. First of all, congrats on the lucids!

I recommend checking this out: http://www.dreamviews.com/f14/mancon...niques-118384/

Remember that dream control is different from lucidity. You can be hyper-aware, yet have no control. And you can have the best control, yet not be lucid. Don't worry about flunking at going through the window, your dream control will get better in time. Just have confidence and know that YOU are in control and YOU WILL go through the window. Try not to doubt and think "I hope I will go through", instead, think "I will go through!".

As for the blurriness, have you tried rubbing your hands or stailizing the dream? That can increase dream vividness as well as anchor you into the dream. You can also try yelling "Clarity now!" or any other commands that you think might make the dream more vivid :)

http://www.dreamviews.com/f12/ninas-...torial-118317/

Hope this helps. Good luck!