Help with dream control

**Brunom50** · 01-10-2013 04:47 AM

I am having issues with my dream control. I have no problem attaining lucidity. I regular use DILD with WBTB MILD and in that department i don't have any issues. The thing is while inside the dream i have pretty much control. I can fly, have sex, control DC, telekinesis... The problem is sometimes even when i am lucid i am still afraid of doing some things. Like for example. I am Lucid and my parents wanna talk to me. I know that is a dream but even knowing that i still stay and talk whit them instead of walk away and go do my stuff.

Thats my problem. I tell my self that its a dream and i control it but its like i forget that.

Any tips?

**Sensei** · 01-10-2013 05:29 AM

If 7 is your LD count then I wouldn't worry about it or you might create a problem. If you have more than that then I would practice visualizing the first 30 seconds of your lucids. In that 30 seconds you realize that you are dreaming, stabilize, and recall your goals. That is what I do. You would want to add in the process something about DCs not being real people.

**dutchraptor** · 01-10-2013 09:36 AM

Just remember that everything in the dream is created by your own mind and that the moment you look away or wake up they will be gone. If you can repeat this in a dream and really understand its meaning you should have no problem. Also dream characters dont usually react badly if you tell them you have to go, they will just accept it and move one. The more straight forward you make getting away from them, the less feelings you will have for leaving them.
When DC's bother me I usully just say "I have to go fly now, see you later" and they just reply "Okay goodluck", the moment you stop worrying so will they.