I Can dream somewhat of what I want but not exactly

Hi I do mantras throughout the day and when i go to sleep at night. Saying what i want to dream about.
For example girls. ANd i want to meet them and interact with them and date them and stuff.
well my mantra is just "I meet girls"

But i do manage to have some influence in my dream cause for example sometimes in my dreams, they're not about girls but i'd dream about being in COllege and there's girls around.. or in some place and suddenly a movie star female(real life movie star) passes walking.
Things like that. However, as you can see I'm not interacting with them, they are just walking by.

How can i make it close to what i want?

Potentially a very stupid question from me, but are said dreams lucid? If yes, then expectation and confidence in your abilities will allow you to bend the dream as you wish and have all the girls you could want. If no, and its just a regular dream, then mantras are probably the best thing for it, at which point it becomes a matter of determination and how powerful you make said mantras.