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I'm back! Again? Uhhh..
You should try what Misaka said and I found it kind of funny but I understand how annoying it can be. I have a question though. Do you find yourself telling others to be quiet a lot or see someone acting in that manner? And if you do does it bother you? If not ignore his existence and replace him with someone else.If you don't pay attention to him he will have less chances of appearing in your dreams. : ) One more thing...You made him your dream guide by accepting it. He may be a bit smarter but that doesn't mean he has to be. After all you don't find his personality helpful at all. I think you can change him if you don't think of him as a enemy or dream guide. In my dreams I had a Dc who was similar to a dream guide but more of a invader. He doesn't appear in my dreams anymore cause I forgot about him. But I recall the last time I saw him I found something acceptable in him even though at first he wanted to ruin my dreams. He could be kind if I made him laugh and even if he wanted to ruin it at first he told me he would leave me alone and left with his partners in crime. |
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Last edited by DawnEye11; 08-28-2014 at 10:02 PM.
First of all, why do you consider him your dream guide? That doesn't sound like the way people describe dream guides - they're supposed to be Helpful! I think a good first step would be to reduce the importance you've given that character. It's just your subconscious trolling you. It likes to do that, and I suspect you gave the character too much attention and that's why it keeps appearing in your dreams now, because you expect it to. You need to realize that even a dream guide is just a character you dreamed up - it's a figment of your imagination and doesn't have any great power over you. |
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i really don't think he has any good intention, he is just one big troll, i tried reasoning with him like telling him "please don't appear in my dreams again", and such things, and he is like a 4chan kind of troll, he takes it as an opportunity to troll more. |
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Oh okay. You don't have to like everyone so its fine. You can change him by focusing on positive characteristics of that dream character and believing he has the rest of the good characteristics you want him to have. It's your dream so even if he acts annoying in one doesn't mean you can't make him good in the next dream. Also, I guess you want him to be your dream guide cause he kind of helped you out by stating the obvious but you can imagine him as someone else instead too. Remember your dream guide can look different and act different too. It is your dream after all. But I understand how a lack of dream control can make it hard at times. Just don't get so frustrated about it. We don't even need dream guides so it shouldn't bother you. |
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Oh, well there you go right there!! That's the problem. You created him - he's that trollish voice you allow inside your head. Apparently he's going to treat you the way you treat others internally. But this is good because it means if you want to get rid of him all you need to do is become a better person (which is something you should do anyway - see, he's actually helping you). It's really no good at all to have these negative insulting thoughts in your head, all they'll do is get worse and worse and turn you into a sour person. It's a habit you've developed and you need to replace it with another one - positive thinking. Learn to think good thoughts about yourself and other people - and heck, why not next time the guy shows up in a dream give him a great big hug and tell him what a cuddly teddy bear he is!! What have you got to lose? |
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Another DV member, Hyu, recently confronted his DG who had turned evil. She was being really horrible to him and preventing him from doing what he wanted in his lucid dreams. |
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thanks, i guess i can find some good things in him if i looked really..really REALLY hard . |
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If its too hard to find good things about him just focus on one good thing and don't let the negatives cloud your mind. :3 I'm sure with all the good advice you got you will prevail. Also, hugging a shadow is possible in a dream. I've done it before and I don't see why its not possible. If hes on the ground or wall pretend your pulling him out of there. XD |
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Oh, I thought he only appeared as a shadow in the most recent dream? Well then just beam love at him. I attempted a flying hug at my bear, but never even made it to him before he split apart into 2 dogs that turned out to be my former pets. So physical contact is not a necessity. |
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Last edited by Darkmatters; 08-30-2014 at 12:23 AM.
OMG that first post was so funny post more dream storys please. |
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You could ask him why he's doing those things, for a start. My first and only encounter with my dream guide gave me negative feedback as well, disagreeing that I was happy in life, which I felt I wasn't at the time. |
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