In Search of a Detailed answer

I am going to phrase this as well as I can.... So here we go...

These are the things I want to happen in my dream: I want to practice my electrokinesis with the x-men, and make out with Rogue... :wink: Keep it serious constructive comments only please...

These are things on my side: The X-Men are reoccuring "dream friends" I see all the time, I have them all memorized in vision and personallity, I have great dream recurrance

This is what I need to know: How EXACTLY should I set up for this to happen concentrate on it before bed or what?

*DETAILED ANSWERS PLEASE*

Lol. obsessed much, eh?

Well you might want to look into dream incubation.
Alternatively, become lucid and use dream control to make it happen.

For #1, I would suggest that you do a wake back to bed (WBTB) - ie get up after 6 hours of sleep and walk around for 20 minutes, then get back in bed.
While you're walking around, clarify exactly how you want your dream to happen.
If you want to be lucid, then imagine the dream involving eg. one of the characters telling you that it's a dream, and proving it.

Get back into bed, and keep running this scene through your head. Over and over.
Do this as long as you can. If you can't fall asleep, then you're trying a bit too hard. relax.

This is very similar to a technique they talk about on ld4all.com called 'VILD' (Visually induced lucid dream) ;)

Wait!? You cant make out with rouge! Even though it is still your dream judging by the fact that you have all personalities memorized I'm not sure if you will be able to override her "sap your energy straight from your dome" power.

I dont know if you would consider that constructive... if not feel free to swear at me in a private msg. :lol:

:shock:
There is something you can do.
If the x men are recuring in your dreams any way your part of the way there.

Just take it to another level. For about 1 to 4 weeks don't have sex or masturbate.
I hope this is ok to post on this site.

If you curb your urges for an extended period of time then you are definitely going to have some sex dreams. Who your mate is going to be is up to your psyche.

What you want is called "Dream incubation" - if you really want something to happen, you think about it for some period of time ( For something small like finding some specific object it may take 1 min of visualization, for something as complex as your plan it may take a week).

So you want to think about your scenario for about a week, *clearly* connecting it to your dreaming. I'm not talking about fantasizing, this isnt helpful. Pretty much this is how it goes - you are going about your business, sometimes thinking that what you want to happen will happen in your dreams and it will happen recurrently.

Every time you think of X-men or Rogue, simply fend off these thoughts with a simple thought : " I can have all sex with Rogue that I want and dont want in my dreams" or something along these lines.

There should be quite a lot of articles about dream incubation on this site, search for them. You should be particularly interested in the mindset of dream incubation - normal fantasizing doesnt work, you need to play it much more subtle, but I have trouble defining what exactly this mindset is.

Think of Freud's interpretation of dreams as wish fulfillment - if you wont "masturbate" on your wish by fantasizing about it, there is an increased chance that your dream will fulfill that wish for you.


PS oh well, this thread may be a bit too old

"I want to practice my electrokinesis with the x-men, and make out with Rogue... Keep it serious constructive comments only please..."

You gotta be kidding. LOL! :D :D :D

Yep, wishing and doing those wishes in a dream. Probably one of the original reasons for lucid dreaming. ;)