Thread: SEX in dreams???

theres a few past threads about that topic. just use that blue toolbar to search for them. I wouldn't reccomend sexual dreams though.

Originally Posted by TK Chris

theres a few past threads about that topic. just use that blue toolbar to search for them. I wouldn't reccomend sexual dreams though.

why wouldnt you reccomend them?

Because i believe it is wrong. And also if you are just starting out at LDing it will prolly excite you and wake you up.

what exactly is wrong with them in your opinion?

anybody else who is reading, feel free to jump in or add something new!

I also wouldn't recomend it. Some people say they got hooked and now it's all their Dream Self wants to do. :/

Originally Posted by josh2010

so how would i go about making a dream be sexual? is it possible to attain orgasm while dreaming?

share your experiences as well!!!

I don't recommend physically forcing sex on a DC for several reasons. If you cannot mentally will them to behave how you want, then try verbal persuasion. Orgasm is obtainable, but can be difficult to reach without waking up, especially when youre just learning to LD. When I cum in an LD I find there is very little actual ejaculate to show for it when I wake up, not sure why that is. It sounds like you are new to lding, I wouldn't worry about sex until you are lding more than once a week and maintaining them for at least 5 minutes. You need to learn what works for you to stabilize your LDs before trying things that are likely to wake you up.

1. Stop having sex and quit masturbate for a week - longer the better (When you have more sperm stored up, you will have a higher probability of having a sex dream because of higher levels of hormone)
2. Auto suggestion before you go to sleep -- repeatedly think about something like "I will dream about blah blah blah"
3. Turn lucid.(optional, you can do it without)
4. Find a girl in a dream and have sex with her.
5. Orgasm can make you wake up and wet your bed!

When I was in puberty, I used to have a lot of sex dreams, but now the frequency is down to once a month.

well two nights ago, was my first attempt at a lucid dream and believe it or not it worked briefly. It wasn't very clear, but I remember knowing that I was dreaming. I was having sex in my backyard but I never exactly finished. I just wanted to be able to go all the way to orgasm.

(i apologize if i was too graphic, but i just wanted to explain myself)

I originally spent most of my LDs in the pursuit of sex, but I realized I was missing out on other cool stuff I can do, too.

I would recommend sex dreams, as well as anything else your heart desires. We are all "civilized" animals - believe it or NOT.

If you see a hot chic (or dude) you can do whatever you want.

If all them sick rapists and child molesters had lucid dreams maybe there would be less crime...because the real world is what counts.

Don't forget its all just in your mind!

Originally Posted by lucid4sho

I don't recommend physically forcing sex on a DC for several reasons. If you cannot mentally will them to behave how you want, then try verbal persuasion. Orgasm is obtainable, but can be difficult to reach without waking up, especially when youre just learning to LD. When I cum in an LD I find there is very little actual ejaculate to show for it when I wake up, not sure why that is. It sounds like you are new to lding, I wouldn't worry about sex until you are lding more than once a week and maintaining them for at least 5 minutes. You need to learn what works for you to stabilize your LDs before trying things that are likely to wake you up.

I dont think there's anything wrong with forcing sex on a character that only exists within your mind... am i right?

but what i was actually asking for were techniques. i appreciate the previous answer about technique and i have in fact refrained from any kind of sex for almost 2 weeks now. It's been very difficult, btw. I've never been this long

Originally Posted by josh2010

I dont think there's anything wrong with forcing sex on a character that only exists within your mind... am i right?

Well, sure, but how can you enjoy it if he/she isn't?

Originally Posted by mini0991

Well, sure, but how can you enjoy it if he/she isn't?

ooops, you already forgot...its all in your head!!

Originally Posted by RunflaCruiser

ooops, you already forgot...its all in your head!!

I meant in the dream. I tried to have sex with an unwilling dream character once and it wasn't pleasant.

Well I have not been able to LD yet, but the first thing I want to do is fly, or go to mars, or fly TO mars, etc. etc. things you can not do in real life, but that is just me. I don't think that having a LD sex dream is wrong in any way, because it is the person having the dream's dream, and what they want to do. That's just me tho. Just remember to have fun.

Originally Posted by mini0991

I meant in the dream. I tried to have sex with an unwilling dream character once and it wasn't pleasant.

Did she bite your **** off? If it was a girl that is...

Originally Posted by josh2010

well two nights ago, was my first attempt at a lucid dream and believe it or not it worked briefly. It wasn't very clear, but I remember knowing that I was dreaming. I was having sex in my backyard but I never exactly finished. I just wanted to be able to go all the way to orgasm.

(i apologize if i was too graphic, but i just wanted to explain myself)

It takes practice. Once you become experienced with lucid sex you learn to control your excitement which solves the problem of premature awakening.

Btw sex in your backyard.

The chance to live out my sexual fantasies in the dream world is (amongst other things) one of the reasons I'm trying to learn lucid dreaming in the first place. I see absolutely NOTHING wrong with it.

I would stay away from it until you are able to maintain dream stability while excited, because, y'know..

Originally Posted by archdreamer

I would stay away from it until you are able to maintain dream stability while excited, because, y'know..

Actually I agree with you here. I've managed to become lucid several times, but woke up instantly each time. But once I've improved my technique and such, it is certainly something I would like to try. When I say there is nothing wrong with it, I mean MORALLY i believe there is nothing wrong with it.

sex dreams are random though. I had sex not so long ago for the first time and likd a week later I had 2 sex dreams one after another ( I was like a dog in heat after my first time lol

Originally Posted by dream_to_be_the_best

[LIST=1][*]Stop having sex and quit masturbate for a week - longer the better (When you have more sperm stored up, you will have a higher probability of having a sex dream because of higher levels of hormone)

Who in their right mind would stop fucking in real life so they could have a sex dream!? ? I randomly have sex in my non lds, but I don't waste my lucids on it. Plus I need to fuck for at least 1-2 hours to really get off, and my lds are usually less than 20-30 minutes. If you aren't getting any ass in real life then it might be worth your time, but I definitely don't recommend trading waking sex for dream sex, you'd have to be out of your mind.

well if you're not married and want to wait for that to have sex, dreams would be a fun alternative.

Originally Posted by Mini Man56

I also wouldn't recomend it. Some people say they got hooked and now it's all their Dream Self wants to do. :/

So what?? lol To each their own. I have sex in a lot of them but sometimes
i want adventure, whatever one wants to dream is their own business! lol
BTW I always have an orgasm in LDs and I do wake up but that doesnt
worry me since i have completed my experience as far as im concerned. The
orgasms i have are always reached a lot faster and are ten times more
intense then in real life as well!! They are achieved by my mind and i never
have to touch myself at all! Which just goes to show us that orgasms can
be achieved only by thought. If in real life you cant achieve them then
you are having a mental block about them and too much clutter is going on
inside your mind at the time. We must all learn to clear our minds of clutter
and negativity in our waking lives.......it just holds us all back!