What would you do? (passive control questioning)

Hi everyone, I'm looking for achieving better passive dream control, but once I woke up I realize that I was able to do better things than what I did.

I'm interested to know what would you do if you get a LD in the following way and you look for having a Lesbian bloody hot sex with a bunch of horny girls (just an idea, if you have another goal, use it)

the lucid dream gets through this way:

You are about to have lunch with your family in your grandparent's house, then, a huge spider apears on the table, you get it into a glass (not big deal). when you are bringing it downstairs to a safety place for everyone (including the spider) you start questioning reality due to this kind of spiders use to appear in a lot of your dreams (it is the first time you use it as a dreamsign) but once you perform your RC it doesn't work. Still, you feel it is a dream but have no other dreamsigns to confirm it and RC's don't work by now. While you are putting the spider on the floor and it runs to hide somewhere between the stuff there. You ask your self how did you get here? (it is the first time you use it as a way to RC) then you find a lot of broken links to the past. You confirm it is a dream. Now RC's work as well... you hear your mother talking with some friend of her in the living room, the rest of the family is upstairs, it's an old house and the dining room is upstairs here...

starting at this point.. what would you do to get your lucid goal?

Expect velociraptors to appear on the stairway, or upstairs? Since velociraptors are pretty good at appearing out of nowhere this isn't too much of a problem. If screaming ensues I have effectively accomplished my task.

I've got the part where I stop them from eating me down, but I'm still working on the control bit. I do have a theory I need to flesh out more that should help with my passive control. However, right now the only way I can think of controlling them without sheer force of will is with one of those things they used in JP III to send the raptors away, near the end. . .

I would use the house as a medium to create these horny girls and then do whatever I want with them, of course.

Or for something I would do, go outside, climb to the top of the house, use saliva to draw a circle around the house and then cast a spell on it to make it go and eat every person in the place/town/city/planet to summon Nerimeno, then fight him.

Notice that the thing changing here is me, and that change affects the outside, instead of making the outside change to my desire.

The first thing I would do is start thinking about breasts (if I wasn't already;))
then stare at my chest until I grew a nice pair. Then try to morph the rest of my body to go with the boobs. If I still had a penis at that point, I'd cut it off. (Done that before in regular dreams)

With my luck I'd probably be a butch lesbian, but still I'd just cruise around until I found some hot chicks.