lucid obstacles

When ever i become lucid there is always something wrong it just really frustrates me. I know it is just restrictions of my mind but i don't know what to do. common example: I try to fly through the roof. If i'm even lucky enough to get through the roof i spin around out of control lose complete vision and wake up with sp and halucinate me floating out of bed then i wake up. Aother common example: say i want to fly and i decide to go outside instead of going through the roof. I try to fly but i can't even lift off the ground then i waste a whole lucid dream trying to fly.
Another example: i want to spawn some one or something using passive control so i leave the room and repeat over and over again such and such is going to be there when i walk in. walk in and there is nothing.

I got good at attaining lucidity i even got up to like 3 or 4 lucids a week but there was always some obstacle. This why i gave up lucid dreaming. this was a year ago. please help me!!!!!

I have the same problems. I can't fly and I am bad at making things appear. You just have to try and work around it. Walk places. Try and look for the person somewhere else or ask a dream character to help you find them. I have wasted so many lucids failing at doing stuff and looking for people. It just happens.

Try visualizing yourself climbing up stairs and getting to the top. You never get to the top. It's very difficult.

It's just like that. YOU have to take control, not your dream.