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I dreamt the other day i was in a car with my boyfriend and i found an empty condom packet (which we dont use) so i ask him about it and he says yes im sleeping with sara (never heard of her) i was her teacher now ive become her mentor.
I go mad and start hitting him and suddenly we are in a room and he is sat on a couch and i am yelling at him but he is ignoring me and talking to his sister who is showing off her coin collection and then i woke up.
Hmm,... well there is a battery of questions I would ask myself about a dream like that. Start at the most obvious and work towards the more oblique. Do you feel that there is a chance he might do that to you someday? Does he do things that make you feel unsure that you are really the only one? Thats the first level. Then you could try peeling it back a level and ask if its not related to anxieties from things you have seen other relationships going through, like maybe your parents.
The car and then in a living room certainly would suggest that it would not be somethinng you would take lighly because it was'nt enough to let him have it in the car you were still screaming in an entirely different setting. The important thing is that if it means anything at all it is yours to decide. It could be just one of those wierd dreams, like where you say, "Thats melodramatic, I know he would never do that to me." If I had to guess (now take this with a grain of salt) I would say that you have seen more than a few broken hearts maybe family or friends because of cheating and you find yourself being anxious about the aspects of your current relationship that don't quite seem to fit your idea of how to avoid these troubles. Perhaps you have remained in relationships with people in the past who have not appreciated you and you are worried that if he were to fail you, you are back in the same old slop all over again.
Hope that helps,
EJ
Often dreams stir up our anxieties. Does it matter that the anxieties may have no basis in actual fact? Maybe it is enough to see that we have anxieties. For instance, can you say you are really comfortable having a boyfriend, or is it simply one long aggrevation. He may be faithful, but if you are worried all the time, then it doesn't really matter whether he is faithful or not. Some people just aren't cut out to be in relationships.
is it possible that this dream is reflecting an inner fear or an insecurity that you have
sometimes we dream of the worst possible scenario of a situation
i have a few dreams where my boyfriend ignores me and does not listen. this reflects my own insecurity that i am not 'valid' or good enough for him to hear. it does not reflect at all how he is. he always listens.