weird dream that i cant shake .. help?

I've always had bad dreams for as long as i can remember, but this one im really interested in finding out the meaning of.. i would love if someone could help.. so in my dream i lived in upstate ny, where i live now.. but i used to live out in long island.. (as in the dream too) somehow in the dream i ended up out there.. i believe i went to go visit this guy, who in the dream was my boyfriend, im single though. i dont think in the dream that i actually wanted to be with him, it was more that i was afraid of him.. i was sleeping in his room, and i guess he went out somewhere.. his room mate i guess came into the room and took my clothes off.. i guess i went along with it.. and we had sex for a minute or so, then i was trying to get off of him because i knew i shouldnt be doing it (not sure if it was because i feared my "boyfriend" or if i didnt want to do it, although i think i did) and my "boyfriend" came in.. and we pretended we were sleeping.. so my "boyfriend" woke me up & was asking me why i didnt have any clothes on & etc.. you could see the anger in him.. then all of a sudden a swarm of men come thru the door with guns & such.. he jumps up & says "damn, the door was locked.. howd they get in" then him & his room mates disappear, these men grab me & i dont know if it was the same house, or if it jumped somewhere else.. but they bring me to this hugeee building, with a lot of floors. it looked really nice, the stairs reminded me of the stairs from the movie the titanic. i asked this one lady if i could leave, i was explaining to her how i dont even live down here, i dont know how i ended up in this situation, i have to get home to my son.. and she looked really sympathetic.. we were in nassau county & she asked if i knew people who lived around there so that i could just jump out of the bathroom window and run to their house.. i told her no, the closest people were in suffolk county.. and i was afraid to try to run, and she told me she will try to make sure that im safe. also through out the dream i kept asking the male guards if i could leave and they would tell me things along the lines of "your pretty, ill think about it," or "maybe, your hot" stuff like that. i went to the bathroom a few times & there were guards watching us.. the last stuff i remember is walking down the titanic stairs from the bathroom, i saw a cute acquaintance that i used to go to high school with, and we said hi to each other.. then i saw this guy i used to sort of be with, from one of my past jobs. he looked different, but it was defff. him.. he said hi, and how it was great to see me.. and that he was "working here on this first floor" then disappeared to his office.. and thats about the last thing i remember.. for some reason i just cant shake the dream. i was really frightened through out it & when i woke up. this dream seemed so real. any help is appreciated!!

There's a lot there. But it seems to come down to how you perceive men. Some or powerful and scary and can get what they want from you (why?). Others are friendly and more like the woman in the dream. But they don't seem to be able to help you. Do you think you have this conflicting feeling about men?