2 dreams

**etereo** · 02-04-2011 01:45 PM

i had this one dream with my cat dolce was choking. I heard him in the next room so I decide to help him. I pushed his stomach a couple of times to make him vomit it up and he did after he vomitted I ended up gaging twice because of the visuals and the dream ended. The next dream is about my ex we are agrueing because i catched a guy talking through text with her. I end up seeing a punch words spelled out skull. we are driving through out this seen. She is driving and i am passenger. I ended up chucking her phone out the window. Then she drops me off i say you can choke on my big dick and she said something back. I didn't hear what she said only the people around me did. Then the dream ended.

**bluesuns** · 02-05-2011 09:12 PM

I'm trying to see something similar in the two dreams. Might not be right but, it seems that in both, you notice something you think is ominous, try to pursue it and pursuing it makes things turn out worse. Could this relate to anything for you?

**etereo** · 02-06-2011 06:29 AM

Originally Posted by bluesuns

I'm trying to see something similar in the two dreams. Might not be right but, it seems that in both, you notice something you think is ominous, try to pursue it and pursuing it makes things turn out worse. Could this relate to anything for you?

Well you nailed it. It seems like everytime I give someone a new chance they shit all over my face. This has been happening since I was 16. I hope karma bites them in the ass because I try to treat everyone as an equal but it doesn't always work

**bluesuns** · 02-06-2011 04:29 PM

Well, all I can say is be a little cautious before you give part of yourself to someone. There are genuine people out there but I think they tend to be more wary/cautious. Those that are more forward, from my experience, are often out to get something from you/use you.

That's not saying to give up on people entirely

just that if people seem a bit too keen to know you, it might be for a negative reason. Those who hold back may have learnt about people who are 'users' and are cautious themselves, they get to know you/anyone much more slowly.

The best friendships sometimes take a lot of time to grow.

Good luck. I'm sure everyone who has been unfair to you will have also been unfair to others and will get what they deserve eventually. I think the things you do catch up with you!

**etereo** · 02-06-2011 05:35 PM

Thank you! bluesuns!

**etereo** · 02-06-2011 05:38 PM

If you are trying to say that I use people 8t is quite the oppsitte I help more than anything. I once almost gave a homeless person to stay my house for the night.

**bluesuns** · 02-06-2011 05:58 PM

Originally Posted by etereo

It seems like everytime I give someone a new chance they shit all over my face.

You're welcome. I wasn't saying you use people, I was saying the opposite - that people may have used you or treated you badly. From your quote it seems to me that you may have got to know people and been kind to them but they then let you down in some way. These people may have been the types of people that try to use you, it may be good to be a little more cautious when getting to know people in future.