A Reccuring Dream Theme

I honestly can't find any help from this from a Google Search and on a Dream Interpretation site, so, here I am for ideas.

I'm a 17-year old guy, I've never had a girlfriend. Never kissed a girl. No girls that I've ever known have been interested in me. I honestly think I'm doomed for life, you hear that a lot, but, my situation really seems unique.

In any case, if that's any help then, I'm surprised. Onto the dream, it's quite sexually suggestive and that's what bothers me (hopefully I'm not breaking any rules here).

I was dreaming that I was with a very "hot"/attractive girl in the tropical jungle, it looked like. My house was somehow situated in the jungle as well. As I was about to 'make love' to this girl, I saw my family members suddenly come out of the house. We quickly withdrew into the woods further, where I figured we could get some privacy. We were up on the hillside and there was a lot of foliage around us.

Before anything could happen between us, anything at all, large bears started coming out of the foliage. I was extremely annoyed. As they cornered me, I said "This is just a dream. I can make you disappear if I want to." And I looked at them, wished them away, turned my head and looked back. They would not leave. Despite the fact that I was apparently lucid, I could not make them go away.

I can confirm I might have been lucid, because, at this point, I pulled out an RPK - a light machine gun from the game Call of Duty: Black Ops (probably the reason I don't have a girlfriend, lmao) and began killing them. However, they would not stop coming.

This is a recurring theme in my dreams. I have this type of theme once every few months and I always vividly remember it. Where I'm very, very close to a sexual encounter but then it is interrupted by odd situations. One time, I was in a hotel room with a girl I was crushing on big time in my Sophomore year of High School and I blinked and she suddenly turned into a school boy - just a regular school boy - with a backpack on, shorts, a baseball cap and a t-shirt. He looked around and ran out of the room.

I'm not some socially awkward kid in real life. I actually have a pretty large, diverse friend base and have many people over at my house over the weekend. True, I don't have much confidence and think I'm unattractive, I'm also a bit crazy/eccentric, but, I'm not the village idiot at school or that creepy kid that sits alone. I'd consider myself semi-popular. I know for a fact there has been one or two more instances of these sexual interruptions in my dreams, one of them being I simply woke up before anything happened and the other I can't remember very well.

Any ideas what this could be? It is bugging me, big time, and I can't quite find an answer.

Thanks,

Anonyman

P.S. I just remembered two more instances of this happening:

I don't know exactly what happened, but, it was similar to the girl-turns-into-little kid theme. Except this time she turned into a dog and barked and ran off. In both of these situations, two objects of strong sexual desire turned into two objects of the completely opposite spectrum.

In another instance, it was raining and sort of flooding outside. As we were about to kiss, the rains roared and I was struck unconscious by a falling rock. I woke up later and everything was flooded out and destroyed. The dream continued but it was just hilarious and random later on and had nothing to do with the girl. She was completely missing from the rest of the dream though. I have a lot of insane dreams that I share with my friends because they're so bizarre, but, there are a few random, serious dreams that come up every once in awhile, like these, that confuse or scare me and make me seek out an answer. This is one that I absolutely cannot figure out.