A peculiar reoccuring dream....

I'm not finding very many answers that are as specific as I need for this certain dream I'm having, so here it goes...

Some info about me:
Sex: Female

The Dream:

As stated in the title, this is a reoccuring dream. However, it isn't a conventional reoccuring dream. It pops up once every week, but this isn't what's abnormal. What's strange about the dream is that each time it occurs, it gets longer and much more vivid. At this point, it looks and feels like waking life. I'm not lucid during the dream ever, otherwise I would test the vividness of it more (if I could read things or see a clock and have it not be gibberish like in dreams).
The dream itself involves one of my best friends whom I think of like a brother. He is about 2 years younger than me, though he definately acts like he is my age or older. Though, this is wrong in one case...he holds a grudge like a child. Currently, over the entire summer, he has been mad at me over my current boyfriend. He doesn't like him particularly, and he apparently got so pent up about him being around and such he thought it fit to curse me out and say we were never a family at all. To this day, he still won't speak to me. Some people believe that the reason this fight occured because of feelings he may have had for me. And it is true, that in the most recent past life of ours, the two of us were married and had children (one of which is laying next to me now and is my best friend). Many people argue that he does, though I don't believe it. But that isn't why I'm here- it's because of the dream.
In this dream, I confront him about our fight. I show up at his house at about dusk, or while it's raining out. I walk inside of the house and noone else is home. At this point, he addresses me rather angrily, and I tell him we need to talk. I try to explain that our fighting is stupid, and that I wish we were as close as we were before. My feelings throughout are anxious- a mix of sad and angry. From here, an argument escalates. I can never remember the exact dialogue, but the fight always is about the same thing. He says that he doesn't want to be around me if I'm still with him (refering to my boyfriend) because he doesn't want to see me with him. At this point, the feelings in the room seem to get so thick, you could cut them with knife. At this point, my feelings become confused, shocked even. He shows jealousy, and we keep arguing. He goes on about how he wishes he had some sort of chance or somehow confesses feelings for me. At this point, my feelings are confused. They're such a muddle of things that I can't make sense of them even when I'm awake. At this point I tell him that he never tried or that he could've had his chance and that he did before, but that I was with him (my boyfriend) now. At this point, he goes in for the kill....on my face. Essentially, I get face-raped by his mouth at this point. (He kisses me out of nowhere.) However, in each dream, I don't seem to fight it. I don't really get the feelings of my being there, I just see him and am aware that he grabs me and kisses me. Now this usually ends the dream. If not, then I say something to him, like asking him for one good reason I should leave the man I am going to marry someday that gives me love and security for something so unsure. And I go on about how I love my boyfriend, and am loyal to him. This alternates between happening before or after the face-attack.
What I believe is that this dream is trying to either send me a message on him, an uprising of past life feelings or something along those lines, or my mind somehow bringing to life the scenarios proposed by my friends. Regardless of my writing off different possibilities, this dream never ceases to bug me. The days it occurs, I cannot stop thinking about it, or certain songs will trigger my thinking of it. Can anyone give me any sort of interpretation, and/or give me some sort of cure for it?

Thank you so much! Sweet dreams!

-N.