Ok i cant take it anymore some one please help :(

about a year ago i had this dream that my cuz died in a car accident i didnt really see what happend. All i saw was that he was in his car driving with no one else and the look of horror on his face and lights from what im guessing were another vehicle. I didnt really think anything of it and i never had the dream again so i forgot about it. But for the last three months I could be at work or in my home watching tv and all of a sudden i have flashes of what was in my dream. I even had them one night when i was out for dinner with some friends.
A few months after i first had the dream he ended up getting a divorse and was no longer related to me but i see him all the time as he his a teacher at my school and still a good friend. I would just like to know if this means im just paranoid or stressed, but i hate it cause every time i hear an ambulance i have a flash of the look on his face when he crashed and it scares me.

I’m not trying to alarm you, but it could very well be some sort of premonition. Personally, I know that some people are more sensitive to that sort of thing (I being one of them…) and it’s entirely possible.

Or it could simply be stress-related imagery, which is generally more likely. Our minds play terrible tricks on us when we’re stressed out. Most of the time, our dreaming minds translate emotion into something that our waking minds can understand. For instance, if you’re feeling overwhelmed by certain events in your life, you may dream of a tidal wave crashing over you. In this case, dreaming of your cousin in a car accident could be your mind’s way of interpreting some kind of stress. Or even fear. Think about the events that were going on when you had the dream previously, and compare it to now. There could be a connection.

I hope this helped.

I like A Lost Souls pragmatic interpretation. Since she has already taken that ground I can point in a little different direction. Perhaps you saw the signs in their relationship of the impending divorce and your mind interpreted it in your dreams as an accident about to happen. Now you are reminded that the writing was on the wall.

It might be a good dream to write down and keep somewhere though, because sometimes people claim to have precog dreams but over time we sort of change dreams in our heads sometimes to suit different needed interpretations. So write it down.

The obvious rhetorical questions are all related to how close you were to them then and now? Have you spoken to anyone about being haunted by the dream?

Regards,

EJ

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Originally posted by Jade Sky
about a year ago i had this dream that my cuz died in a car accident i didnt really see what happend. All i saw was that he was in his car driving with no one else and the look of horror on his face and lights from what im guessing were another vehicle. I didnt really think anything of it and i never had the dream again so i forgot about it. But for the last three months I could be at work or in my home watching tv and all of a sudden i have flashes of what was in my dream. I even had them one night when i was out for dinner with some friends. *
A few months after i first had the dream he ended up getting a divorse and was no longer related to me but i see him all the time as he his a teacher at my school and still a good friend. I would just like to know if this means im just paranoid or stressed, but i hate it cause every time i hear an ambulance i have a flash of the look on his face when he crashed and it scares me.

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Remember how the rest of your Dreams have been Symbolic. Well, this one was also symbolic. The Divorce WAS the Car Wreck. The course of the Life he had planned went out of control and crashed. The worse is over. No, there will be no Accident. It has already happened to him.

The good news, is that none of it was his fault -- morally he is as innocent of his broken marriage as a driver who gets in an 'accident'. Well... he may have gotten into the marriage way too fast...

Well its odd, before when they were married my cuz was like my favorite relative she was nice and fun to hang out with and talk to and i really didnt even know anything about her husband but once she got finished with the divorse i never really talked to her anymore. I barely even see her and now im really good friends with her ex who i see just about every day now.

But no I havent told anyone else about it, when i first had the dream i just thought it was just another one of my weird dreams but when i started having little flashes of it during the day. I was just on the comp one day when I heard a siren and thought of the dream and then i remembered about this site and thought i would see if anyone could help.

the thing i just dont get with the theory that i had the dream and it was telling me what was going to happen is that i started remembering about it and getting glimpses of it again far after their divorse, and i know for a fact now that he is happily re-married, and im happy for him so i just dont get why this dream is coming back to haunt me. I dont like seeing that, ive even cried myself to sleep before.

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Well its odd, before when they were married my cuz was like my favorite relative she was nice and fun to hang out with and talk to and i really didnt even know anything about her husband but once she got finished with the divorse i never really talked to her anymore. I barely even see her and now im really good friends with her ex who i see just about every day now.

But no I havent told anyone else about it, when i first had the dream i just thought it was just another one of my weird dreams but when i started having little flashes of it during the day. I was just on the comp one day when I heard a siren and thought of the dream and then i remembered about this site and thought i would see if anyone could help.

the thing i just dont get with the theory that i had the dream and it was telling me what was going to happen is that i started remembering about it and getting glimpses of it again far after their divorse, and i know for a fact now that he is happily re-married, and im happy for him so i just dont get why this dream is coming back to haunt me. I dont like seeing that, ive even cried myself to sleep before.

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Well, I HOPE the dream isn't quite as literal as your other dreams have been. The Symbology of Out of Control Vehicles is so common in dreams, that one would have to be very careful before one could take such a dream literally -- that an Accident in a Dream was so how prophetic of an actual accident. But your anxieties DO seem to dread an actual accident. My theory that the Dream Accident was symbolic of an upcoming divorce, well that theory lost a lot when it so happened that the divorce had already occurred by the time the dream happened.... unless the Dream was simply reflecting upon this man's personal family tragedy. Just in case, what about your attitude toward relationships and marriage. If your dream is covering a domestic tragedy with the symbolism of an Auto Wreck, then we could expect that you would see relationships as risky and dangerous.

If not, then you should warn your cousin to drive carefully and see that his automobiles are current models with airbag technology. Ask you Dreams to give you one Sign of Warning that you might deliver to your cousin. For instance, I once ran a busy metropolitan Red Light simply from inattention. So subsequently whenever I see a Green Light from a distance, I say aloud STOP STOP STOP STOP, until I am close enough to the light were I can certainly safely suppose that come hell or high water, it would be safe to GO on through. It has fairly ritualized the Traffic Light system for me, which makes me better at noticing their approach. You cousin may need to look for one particular thing that could give him warning.

Or the dream may be about your attitude toward Relationship. We have ourselves a mystery.

Jade Sky, why did you start your post stating that your cousin was male, then later stated that your cousin is female? I'm a bit confused...

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Jade Sky, why did you start your post stating that your cousin was male, then later stated that your cousin is female? I'm a bit confused...

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I figured she had inadvertently transposed over while she was talking about her cousin's wife, now his ex-wife. It seemed as so she was saying that the divorce was totally unexpected, since the Cousin's wife seemed so nice and friendly.

But, yes, taken as written, it would be rather confusing.

ok ill help to clear this up he was married to my cuz which made him related to me then they got a divorse and he was no longer part of the family, then a few months later he remarried to another woman who is extremely nice