reoccurring dreams for 4 years!

So I have been in a relationship with the same man for 9 years. We are not married or engaged but we have talked about it. We also have a 1 1/2 yr old son together. But for the past four years I've been having a variety of dreams about a football player. Now I used to live semi-close to him and knew clubs and such that he regularly went to but have never met him or seen him other than on tv. I have had a variety of dreams, from randomly meeting and ending up together to us already being together and the dream just picks up from there, but they are always about him though, but they all end with him and I together. After I had my son the dreams tend to include him as well, like me and the football player end up together and he doesn't mind that I have a son from a previous relationship. But most recently I had a dream that we got married. I mean I can recall every DETAIL of the wedding and people that were invited (of course in reality I don't actually know their names but in my dream I knew them all!) and it's just strange because in the past 9 years have never once had a dream of my boyfriend and I getting married. It's just odd because there is not a week that goes by that I don't dream of this person

So last night i jad another one about him. I was at a very high class restaurant /resort and he was there too. I was there with my family (including 2 of my great grandparents who are passed away). It was an outside patio restaurant and he was there for some football stuff including a press conference later. He kept watching me and smiling at me and finally i went over to him. We sat and talked and kissed and stuff then i had to go back to family stuff for a bit and have dinner and do pictures and stuff, this is where i realized it was my cousins wedding (in reality they have been married a year now) and my great grandma notices hes still looking at me and watching every thing i do and she tells me he limes me and i need to go to him. Then i go back to him. I show him how to use a strange radio (in reality ive never seen anything like it ) and hes happy. Then its time for the press conference and he tells me he doesnt want me to leave for it and to stay by him, so i do. Then shortly into the press conference with me by his side i wome up.

Im just baffled! I very rarely have drempt of my boyfriend and never once dreamt of marrying my boyfriend. Im very baffled as to the meaning of all these dreams. Any input would be appreciated! I mean after 4 yrs + of dreaming i feel like i know this guy as well as i know myself!