Thread: Dreamed being a ghost alongside my dad that has passed away in 2008...

This dream happened I'm assuming around 11pm-12am because I woke up from it at around 12:10am. this is gonna have 3 dreams because after i woke up from the first one, i had another one a little similar to it. The 3rd dream however isnt mine, it was one that my mom had that kinda links to mine so please bear with me. So the dream starts off that I'm walking on the airport road back home in Hawaii with my dad, who has passed away back in 2008. When I see him I tell him that I've missed him and I haven't seen him in a long time but that I was glad to see him again. he just nodded to acknowledge me. he had a smile so I guess it was why I wasn't so worried. but then I got this feeling that I was also dead and a ghost like him. so we continued walking and that whole time I was trying to figure out why I died. I was also trying to figure out what year it was. numbers popped up as I was walking but I guess I was feeling overwhelmed and confused. but what I got out of that part of the dream was the number 8 and some year with numbers adding up to 8.
okay, next scene-- my dad and I appear in a dark kitchen and I see my mom walk in it to pour herself a cup of coffee. I got excited and walked near her and tried to grab her arm and said, mom! she stopped pouring her coffee to look my way and she said my name... and then started to tear. then she turned to her right where my dad was standing, and for some reason she could see him and hugged him. I just stood there so confused.

next scene-- my dad is sitting at a computer like how he always used to, in some small room. so I walk up to stand behind him and I ask, so you can use a computer like that without anyone knowing? he answered saying, yes of course. for this one, I was confused because it was like he can do things like use a computer but no one can see because he's just a ghost.

last scene-- I know my dad was around but he wasn't in the room with me, ; this time I was in a small room and my daughter was sitting either on a chair or bed, maybe watching tv or something on a computer. so I was happy to see her but knowing I was just a ghost or dead, I wasn't sure if she'd know I was there. but I said her name and she replied, oh mom. I was surprised so I asked if she really could hear me and she said, yes mom. and then I woke up from all of this. -- thru the entire dream, I felt a loneliness or emptiness inside me. sure, I'm suppose to be happy to be with my dad whom I looked up to my entire life but, I felt so lonely... kinda like it didn't matter my dad was there, I just wanted to be alive and be with my family, I didn't wanna be dead.

So now I'm awake and trying to go back to sleep. but before i do so, i remember the number 8 and something about figuring out a year that equals to 8 that i had in my dream. i realize that the year 2015 adds up to 8, so i guess you could say my paranoia popped up thinking that something bad might happen to me or my family that year.... anyway, I finally fall back to sleep so here is the 2nd one. it's not long so it won't be too bad. -- in the dream I have the impression that I am once again a ghost but this time, my daughter is also a ghost with me, like she is also dead. we are standing next to each other looking at each other trying to figure out what is going on. again it is a lonely feeling of not wanting to be dead. I wanted us to both be alive and well. and then I woke up.

I call my mom on my break at work to tell her about my eerie dreams and after I explain the whole thing to her, she starts crying saying that when she woke up she had a dream that she was also with my dad, but, they were somewhere like a church and they were both sitting and she was crying and crying because my daughter died. she said my dad didn't say anything but she was just crying. she never saw a body or anything, she just had a feeling that my daughter was dead and was crying. -- and then she woke up to the sound of the phone ringing, which was me calling her. she said she got scared that I was calling to tell her something bad that happened to my daughter.

OK. I know it's a lot but I really wanted to get everything in there so that hopefully there's someone out there that can help me analyze my dreams and of course my moms one as well, since it happened pretty much in the same timeframe. could it be that my dad is trying to tell us something? something bad gonna happen? or maybe it's not him at all but something else? I just find it weird that both my mom and I had coinciding dreams, both with my dad, which by the way we have not dreamed of my dad for a very long time. my dad didn't seem worried in the dream, it was more like my mom and I were. so I don't know how to interpret this anymore except thinking bad thoughts. we're both a bit scared, well i should say I'm a lot more freaked out than my mom, but I could be wrong. my dreams really just rubbe me the wrong way and I'm uncomfortable thinking about it. please, I hope someone could help me out soon.