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      Someone "unknown" proposed to me!

      First I was hanging out with a group of unknown people (boys and girls) in what seemed to be a hotel. There were many girls but there was one in particular that I found VERY attractive, she had beautiful eyes, hair, etc. It was like first sight love (even though I currently have a girlfriend in my real life and in the dream she was still my girlfriend).

      Other guys were hitting on her but I decided to talk to her anyways (even though I am an introvert/shy person that's "scared" of talking to good-looking women). She told me she was in a relationship but she wasn't happy with him and I told her the same (I genuinely felt that way in my dream, and sometimes I feel that way in real life, I'm talking about not being happy with my current girlfriend) we became friends and spent some time together.

      Fast forward to what seemed like another dream, I was in my grandmother's house with all my family gathered there and then some one said there was a problem (I can't remember what was the problem, sorry) and told us that we all needed to go outside NOW, we all went outside the house and gathered in the street, there were neighbors too. Then all of a sudden I look up in the sky and there was one of those airplanes that write words in the air with smoke and it said, " NotYourMom with you marry me? girl's_name " and everyone was clapping and happy and I was like what the f... (I was surprised, not mad. I was kind of happy, actually) my girlfriend was besides me but I can't remember her reaction, I can't even remember seeing here there, I just knew that she was next to me.

      The girl proposing to me happened to be that beautiful girl that I met at the hotel and when I saw she proposed to me I felt happy. Then a I hear a random sound several times and I woke up angry that I couldn't finish my dream.

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      • I can't remember the girls name.
      • In the dream, when I was at my grandmother's I couldn't remember what the girl's face looked like.
      • I can't still remember here face.



      About me:

      I'm 19. I'm currently studying computer engineering. I have a girlfriend I really love but it's my first one and I feel like I want to try different things with different girls, etc. But I haven't and probably won't cheat on her. I've thought of ending our relationship but man, she really loves me, I mean REALLY loves me. Sometimes I treat her like trash*** but she still treats me like I'm a f..ing god.

      *** I'm an introvert person and sometimes I just want to be alone at home and not talk to anyone, not even text anyone. But she is always texting me even though I don't text her back that often. When I don't text her back she starts calling me and texting me more often and I REALLY, REALLY hate that (I've let her know that but she keeps doing it) then I get mad and say stuff I don't really mean (I don't insult her, btw), stuff like 'I don't want to be with you anymore', etc. Just to stop her from texting/calling me like a maniac and she stops. I know that I hurts her feelings when I do that but it's something hard to control for me, I just want to be let alone sometimes, how hard can it be?

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      Believe me, i am a super-introvert. I've had hot cheerleaders ask me out and i tell them to screw off just because i love to be alone and by myself. Im not gloating but just an example. Some people theorize that dreams are your subconscious trying to give you advice on life that you just cant accept from anyone else. This dream could very well prove that you have a desire to leave the girlfriend you have. Does this mean you should? Well, its up to you. The only one who can interpret your dream the best is actually yourself. I can tell in your about me section, that you are an introvert, and you don't appreciate being bothered a lot. You might not remember the girls face because maybe it was not important. Maybe, the girl is just a generic figure that shows your desire to see other people. If I were you, i would take a personal inventory and see if your current standing with your girlfriend is where you would desire it to be. Your real girlfriend seems like a clingy person which might not be healthy for both of you. BUT, TAKE WHAT I SAY LIGHTLY!!!!! IN THE END YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE WHO KNOWS WHAT THIS DREAM MEANS!!!
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      Maybe you should just go out and meet new people, without your girlfriend. This is not cheating, you will only meet new people. It seems you are confused about your feelings towards your girlfriend. Maybe hanging out with male friends might give you a different perspective, maybe some new girl will catch your eyes or maybe not. Bottom line is you are still very young and you said she is your first girlfriend, there is plenty of fish in the sea.

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