Thread: mixed dreams during a my divorce

From this dream on the surface it seems you feel you have no control over your life. You can't keep your facial hair down, you have to watch as someone is stripped publicly, you cannot Ave a loved one. You couldn't access your own money.

Examine your life and I bet you realize you have more control than you think. You are doing exactly what you want.

Are there any more details?

No but from what I read from dreams interpretation, the whiskers were that a woman is constantly at me .. This would ring to me as my ex's partner as I've been stalked by her for 9 months to the point where I had to change my mobile number three times as my now grown up kids were forwarding my number :-( and the bank what I can only see as ....is that my ex has committed fraud using my name that I have paper proof of... But I don't know what to do with it! I'm paying creditors off in my name but not my signature ! As I'm only recent,y divorced its still on going with selling our home that I no longer live at but want sold desperately but he is blocking me every way he can to make things difficult ,, I still have court to go to yet for assets etc. and I can't be near him he is and lays has been controlling of my life

Originally Posted by Debz

No but from what I read from dreams interpretation, the whiskers were that a woman is constantly at me .. This would ring to me as my ex's partner as I've been stalked by her for 9 months to the point where I had to change my mobile number three times as my now grown up kids were forwarding my number :-( and the bank what I can only see as ....is that my ex has committed fraud using my name that I have paper proof of... But I don't know what to do with it! I'm paying creditors off in my name but not my signature ! As I'm only recent,y divorced its still on going with selling our home that I no longer live at but want sold desperately but he is blocking me every way he can to make things difficult ,, I still have court to go to yet for assets etc. and I can't be near him he is and lays has been controlling of my life

:-(

Originally Posted by Debz

Hi I had mixed dreams last night ... the one was that I had so many bristley whiskers in my chin i just couldnt get them out fast enough... and they were tough too... then it went onto a death of someone I loved but it wasnt my new partner, and no one would help me?.. I was devistated... then it went onto my bank.. I couldnt access my bank in any form... and after that it went into a dream about my daughters friend not being able to get into a party or something like that because she had too much Bling on !! they actually stripped one girl but it didnt seem like she had that much metal on ??? Please help Im very confused but managed to wake and write down what I could remember...

The chin would represent an attitude or stance, one can "keep their chin up, take it on the chin, etc"...Growing whiskers there, suggesting a male attitude could suggest that because of the recent events, a divorce always being hard, especially hard when there is a child involved, that you might need to "soften " your attitude just a bit and remember to be your real loving self. The death of someone you loved could be just another way of saying a divorce is like a death, and at one time you did love this person. Not being able to "access your bank" is suggesting that perhaps you are forgetting your own self worth, your own gifts and talents, your spiritual wealth, the things that are important. The part about your daughter's friend having too much bling is pointing out that you need to be viligant about your daughter's friends and their values. If she has friends that put too much emphasis on shiny bright stuff,and too much metal on, could mean some of these friends "are hard" meaning hardened to the world already and maybe keep close check on those friendships.
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I like those ideas of a chin.
Maybe the whiskers on her chin represents her ex, who is really being bristly.
You can't get him out of your life fast enough. And it's tough.
You felt helpless and devastated over the divorce. And maybe could not access your value in this area, which maybe is love.

DAUGHTER
OPTION 1
Maybe you devalued yourself, but you now overvalue your daughter, so she can't 'come to the party.' You can't celebrate with her, be friends with her, because you see yourself as worthless.
Maybe you lessened your overvaluing of her, to see she really wasn't that more valuable than you. So it was your correction, to regain the balance with your daughter.
Now I doubt that is right.

OPTION 2
Maybe the daughter means what love you have left, the part of you that could not now celebrate and be enjoyed because love was too valuable, beyond your reach, and you felt you couldnt access the value of love in you.
As a result, you felt that value was stripped, because it could not happen, and there was not much of it anyway.

Your ex certainly is making it all very harder than it should be.
It's hard enough as it is.