Very scary dream about a little girl

**somerandomguy** · 04-14-2013 10:38 AM

Dream goes like this...,

I just realize i cannot move any of my body parts, I (22 years) try to call my uncle (27 yrs) who is sitting just few meters away from me but i can't, I try to scream, move all body parts but nothing happens, I keep trying this for sometime and then i can move again...

I shout at my uncle and ask him wtf is going on here, Is there any witch is the house, I wan't able to move, do anything...,

Anyways he says he has the answer, He takes me to a room (by the way his house is completely different in the dream) there i see a young girl (8-10 years old) white but her face till neck is completely black, He introduces her to me as his girlfriend, Two things happen at the same time, First i am scared as shit, I have seen horror movies, and i know this is just a kid but i am scared, Second.. he already has a girlfriend and this girl is just a kid so this doesn't make sense.

After the introduction he leaves, I am alone with her, I just run but she appears in front of me (i am planning how to get rid of her as i am certain she's real bad).. And she says she's my uncles girlfriend and if i don't get a girlfriend as well + do whatever she says i will be in trouble, After that i just wake up. (i don't have a gf)

**JoannaB** · 04-22-2013 02:31 AM

Ok, first of all I would not let a dream character bully you into getting a girl friend if I were you. Get a girl friend if you want for your own reasons.

Girlfriend is such a funny word. Why is it not womanfriend? The word girlfriend may have brought about this idea of gf as little girl, because the word implies girl not woman.

I think part of the dream may have been about power in relationships. The girl seems too young to be the one in charge, and yet she is. She tells you to get a gf and to listen to her. Is part of the reason why you don't have a gf because you are scared of giving someone control over you? Are you afraid that a gf would bewitch you, and hunt you down - not let you go your own way, and tell you what to do?

The feeling of not being able to move could have been caused by your awareness of dream paralysis and confusion over why you were paralyzed - not realizing it was to keep you safe while asleep, so you looked for a different reason, for someone to blame. And when you looked for someone to blame you thought of a witch, of a girlfriend.

I really would reexamine your conception of what a girlfriend is like if I were you.

**travellight27** · 04-22-2013 07:50 AM

I think it is a dream about relationships with others....others who may have a great influence over you and perhaps you look up to them and respect, but there comes a time when you are tested to follow your own instincts about what is right or wrong for you. In other words....don't let peer pressure or a need to be "approved of or accepted by others" change your own behavior knowing what is right for you.

**somerandomguy** · 05-04-2013 07:38 PM

@JoannaB

Thanks bro, you're right and this makes much sense.

I didn't realize that girl was bullying me.

Well my views are simple, No women can be trusted, i have no expectations from them. But i respect women a lot, I don't think they will bully/hunt or try to control me.

And yes since i was unable to move, i would have created the outcome myself even without realizing it., I didn't want to blame anybody though i was angry because i was unable to move and my uncle was not helping me even though he was beside me.,

Anyways i had similar dream few months back where a women witch (20 years i guess) was trying to run away from other witches, Me and my friends tried to help her, The other witches warned me not to help her as they didnt want to hurt me but i did anyways. They killed everybody (i..e my friends, other peoples who were just there). In the end they found the girl, killed her and i woke up.

**somerandomguy** · 05-04-2013 07:41 PM

@travellight27

I don't think this is the case, There's hardly anybody who has any influence over me, And i literally don't look up to anybody for anything but i do respect many people.