I rode a yellow bull down the isle in a white dress at my wedding

**Stardom101** · 04-25-2013 07:18 AM

This is quite the long dream i think it has a deep meaning i just dont know it... So i was at some cathedral looking church on the top floor where the huge bell is usually at i was with my mom and two flowers girls and we were on our way to rehearse. All of a sudden the church led us to this extremely narrow yellow dirt road it literally fit only two people if you slipped you were done for the bull who was an yellower orange color was in front of us then the two girls me then my mom we were walking the hill was so steep and narrow that the bull started to slip backwards somehow fell out of a window that just all of a sudden there and i grabbed him by the horn my mom kept yelling let me go bcuz he was huge but i looked to see how far he was from the floor and the was a busy highway that was prob 100 floors high so since i was still holding on to his horns i pulled him up all by myself. Then all of a sudden I'm under a white brick huge canopy sitting on top of the bull with my white dress i remember looking at the dark red tiled floor with a couple of white and purple rose pedals there were no chairs and i kept telling myself that i wasn't done rehearsing for this wedding and things weren't ready there were no chairs nobody was there so all around this canopy there was a backyard the bull saw i think a lady with a red dress and started chasing after her and i had to once again grab him by the horns and make him look at different people that had on different colors on to distract him from people who wore red. Then i remember seeing my current boyfriend who was supposed to be my husband chatting and being a host then i got to the end of the backyard and i saw an old man who was chatting and had under a red shirt and a blue and white shirt on top i rode this bull throught my whole wedding .... I dont know if this means anything i am a Taurus. Please help i believe this has a deep meaning i am just not aware of... Thank you in advance..... Also forgot to say throught the whole dream i felt felt like going with the flow And wondering why my boyfriend spent so much money on the wedding i didnt feel extremely happy i was just confused on how fast everything was going.. Me and my boyfriend dont argue we may bicker at small stuff but had never had a huge fight we've been together for 2 years we see each other everyday i feel like i am comfortable with him and i dont know what is like to loose him so I'm just comfortable but i know if i do it would hurt extremely bad

**Scionox** · 04-25-2013 07:21 AM

*Moved to Dream Interpretation*

**JoannaB** · 04-27-2013 01:38 PM

I think the idiomatic phrase "take the bull by the horns" may be pertinent here. It means to face a problem and grapple with it without avoiding it.

I was struck by how in your description of your relationship with your boyfriend you kept repeating that you are "comfortable" with him. Is that a problem for you in your mind - and if it is not please do not make it a problem, but some people get to a stage in a relationship where they take each other for granted, and they are too comfortable with the status quo, and this not willing to risk change - could that be your problem? If it is not, please disregard this suggestion: I definitely do not want to cause you to see problems if they are not there. After two years together, some people have expectations of marriage: now this may be your expectation or it could be others expectation (your mother for example gets mentioned in your dream - I know some mothers can be pushy for marriage and grand kids). Do you feel like either you think you should get married, or you think others are expecting it of you?

On the other hand, it may be significant that you feel you are not done rehearsing, not ready for it yet.

Marriage could also be symbolic for a time for some change in the relationship, taking the relationship to the next level, but not necessarily literally marriage.

Whatever it is, I was struck by how in your dream you were willing to grab the bull by the horns: you are willing to resolve this issue, you are confident, and you can do it (you pulled that bull up by its horns all by yourself, and when it got distracted by lady in red, you kept it under your control) - you thus have a sense of being in control of the situation, self confident / self assured, and that's good!

Yes, I absolutely do believe that your knowledge that you are a Taurus had an impact on this dream - it is your special symbolic animal, and you identify with it. That said, pulling the bull up by the horns and saving it from falling may be symbolic for saving yourself from falling (or failing?) and also you are the one who is distracted and bring yourself firmly back in control.

I think while there are some elements of confusion and of not being ready, but the being in control of the bull and your being willing to "take the bull by the horns" in this dream I think predominate. You can do it! It is a dream of empowerment I think.

I want to stress one more time that if you are not actually thinking that there is anything wrong with being comfortable, then do not let others bully you into changing this relationship, neither dream interpreters over the Internet nor people in real life. This dream may not be about a need to take this relationship to the next level, but rather about expectations that you would, but as long as ose expectations are not yours, you should do what you want and need - remember you are in charge of this bull, just like in the dream.