I think sometimes our mind recalls faces from the past, going down memory lane. Perhaps wondering what happened to them? Or perhaps needing a face for the dream, and those faces just happen to be available? Or maybe you were not thinking of these friends precisely, but were thinking of something they represented and that brought back the memory of them - like if one of them really liked to cook for example?
How do you feel about homosexual relationships in real life? Are you tolerant toward them or homophobic? I think that would make a difference. For example if you are tolerant, maybe your mind wanted to give you a sense of what the other side lives like, empathizing with gay men? But if you are homophobic, maybe your mind wanted to make this stand in for impossible taboo relationship?
Another thought, if you are still single, could someone else be thinking that you are gay, and you picked up on that? I have known friends who were single, and their friends or family wondered about that incorrectly.
I wonder whether there is something in your life that makes you uneasy currently. Something where you feel trapped, like you are participating in it, but it is not by your choice? And this would not have to be a relationship, could be a job, or an idea someone had that you feel you are being forced to go along with? The dream is about love that you do not reciprocate, which is a powerful issue, a big issue. Something is a big issue to someone else, but makes you uneasy and you feel it is unimportant - or rather it is important but you do not wish to admit how you feel because you do not wish to hurt someone's feelings?
Of course, if any of my ideas do not sound right, feel free to discard them. If this is not it, could you give some ideas as to any big issues you are currently struggling with? What is going on i. Your life right now? Perhaps this dream ties in with that somehow. If you do not wish to share that, then try to self examine - the dreamer often makes the best dream interpreter, because you know more than anyone else what else is going on in your mind.
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