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      Disturbing dream about a dead child

      Hi! Thank you so much for reading.

      I often have fairly vivid dreams and even dream lucidly from time to time, so it's not common for me to feel disturbed by my dreams but this one really got to me.

      I dreamt I was in a restaurant with my boyfriend who is divorced currently, we are getting married in three months. Just for a little background

      In this restaurant it was very dark and we were both dressed very nice. Somehow I overheard another family talking about the death of their daughter, my boyfriend heard and joined in with them, highly upset and felt as if he could relate well with these people due to the fact that he is also having to move from his children. It's a long story, please no judgement here.

      So in the middle is this conversation about their little girl, who apparently climbed out of her bedroom window and fell from a roof pitch, I see this bedroom with windows that have thick wooden panels covering them. There is a little papillon dog making a strange sounding bark by the windows, so I walk over to check it out. Suddenly I can see through the windows and there is the little girl on the roof and I thought, OMG! There she is! She's not dead. I reach through the window right as she's about to slide as catch her hand to pull her back in. But instead of being able to save her, her arm begins to lengthen and stretch and even though I'm holding her hand, she falls. But as she falls, she gives me this really malicious looking grin...so I let go of her as I realize, because of the look, that this was not her and she was already dead like the parents said.

      Then her mother walks in and says, I noticed the dog barking in such a strange way...I should have known something was wrong. She was trying to warn me (daughter) was outside the window.

      Ok...then that was over and it turns back to this restaurant scene, except now my boyfriend is very agitated because his ex wife is supposed to meet him there. I kind if tag along behind him and see her, close to the door, sitting in a booth with some files in her hand. She is dressed very attractively and in this hat (horse races, sexy blonde plantation owner daughter), yet she's obviously being very manipulative and has a sort of holier than thou air about her.

      She has some kind of papers for him to sign and is threatening him, very covertly, and he is very disheveled looking.

      Finally he signs and she leaves, but in the meantime he's left upset and she prances out happily.

      I asked him how he felt after that and he says, honestly it makes me miss them. And this made me really sad...woke me up in a semi cry.

      Strange enough, I called him and he was upset because he had to talk to his ex that night. She did something with som legal papers that will cause his move to be delayed, which quite frankly infuriated him.

      So there ya go. What do you think? The child part disturbed me the most. I've had other dreams of trying to save a little girl, and this is the second in which I could not because she was already dead. But it's the first in which she gives me a very evil looking scary grin while I'm holding onto her! Uuuuhhhggggghhhh...

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      Btw...I talked to him after the dream. He is out of country at the moment so I was sleeping while he was having this issue with his ex.

      And sorry about typos!

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      I managed to get some meaning to this dream:
      To see a dead child, means you will be seriously ill.
      Dreams about dead child | Explanation of dreaming about dead child
      Theres some more interpretations to that:

      To dream of dead children means that your sympathetic to something that happened in your childhood or witness something of another child.
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      I think you sympathize with your boyfriend having to separate from his children, and I think that caused you to have a heartbreaking dream about a kid. Could it be that you also have a maternal instinct, and that the mother inside of you has a typical motherly worry that something horrible such as death could happen to a child? It is also possible that the child is a representation of your inner child, the loss of innocence, the loss of carefree life without responsibilities? The evil grin on the child's face could be about a worry that something is not as good or as innocent as it appears, that good can turn into evil? You try to help people, and sometimes they do not accept your help, and are ungrateful, and repay your good intensions ungratefully? I have no clue whether any of this applies to you, just brainstorming some possibilities.
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      Thank you both very much! I actually have had a few fears lately of things being too good to be true. my boyfriend is unimaginably amazing. Amazing. And he hasn't said many negative things about his ex wife, but I do have a relatively good insight into what has gone down between the two of them and its not pleasant. Now he has simply given up and decided to move on into a life where he's not just waiting around for a visit or a call from his kids. This has been absolutely devastating, as you can imagine, and there is great resentment that I sense from him towards her as she seems to be happy with his decisions.

      So of course there is little part of me that wonders, despite how amazing and honest and loving he has been with me and my children, if there is something else in the background that I'm unaware of. Something that would cause her to be ok with this separation, as I can't imagine anyone not wanting a life with him. Of course, I have a pretty clear understanding of what has happened in their marriage and why it went awry, but I think my brain just likes to throw questions at me.

      So yes...it could be a small fear that things are not as good and sweet as they are promised. I think anyone would be afraid in this situation. I also feel a great bit of guilt myself because of him moving from his children, which could have something to do with it.

      The dog barking to warn worries me. As if I should listen to my loyal friend and not ignore my intuition.

      These are confusing times woh huge changes both desireable and undesirable, so I'm expecting more of these strange dreams to pop up.

      Thank you very much for your insight! It's wonderful to have another point of view to help the lightbulb process!

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