Being pregnant and giving birth in dream

**Annie90** · 07-01-2013 08:30 AM

So, here is my dream. Although there is no sign of a father in the beginning of the dream, I'm pregnant. I'm completely obsessed with my belly and I want the baby to come out as soon as possible. I eventually give birth - I could even feel the pain although I don't have any children - and it turns out to be a baby boy. In my dream, I start to feel so much love for this baby more than anything else. This baby boy is my world, although it didn't have a name in my dream.
Months pass and the baby gets bigger. Eventually, I run into my ex at a supermarket. My ex is happy to see me and wants to hold the baby. He then realizes that he is the father and asks me "could it be true?", I said "yes". He seems to be very happy about his fatherhood. My ex then disappears and I wake up.

Here is what happened in real life: I never really got any closure in my relationship with my ex. He simply went cold on me for a reason that still keeps me guessing. I found out a couple of days ago that he is seeing someone else now. It seems to me that she is pushing things and that she wants to move fast. They've only known each other for three weeks and she already posted a pic of them together as her profile picture on facebook. She also posts check-ins to places where they go to together. I know for a fact that he doesn't like to be pushed, he is even a little controlling. When we were together, he would constantly complain about women being "no good, because they get pregnant on purpose and trick guys into marrying them". He also complained about women being "too materialistic" and that they're only after his and his dad's money. There is no reason for me to want to be in a relationship with him again, but I was wondering what this dream means.

**Scionox** · 07-03-2013 10:30 PM

*Moved to Dream Interpretation*

**Annie90** · 07-08-2013 09:41 AM

I had a dream last night about the same ex bf. I saw him at work, at a bar and at a track field all by himself. I could see him, but he didn't see him. It was as if I was watching a movie about him. I wanted to talk to him but I felt inadequate and for some reason an unknown force kept me from walking up to him to start a conversation. My dream ended with him getting into his car and driving away from the parking lot I was at.

What could this mean?

**Superman1** · 07-10-2013 02:33 PM

Annie90,

This seems to be you resolving the ex-relationship.
'He simply went cold on me for a reason that still keeps me guessing. I found out a couple of days ago that he is seeing someone else now.'
So you just found some resolution, whether she was why he went cold on you or not.
So you enter a new chapter where he is gone fully and you can love yourself again.

You were completely obsessed probably with the resolution, or finding why he separated from you, wanting this and the resultant new growth to come out as soon as possible, I guess.
You eventually give birth after finding out - and you feel the pain.
Seems you would be, or should be, glad to be finished with him, and his ideas. That opposite him, love comes.
You start to feel so much love for this new you or potential more than anything else.
That can explain why it is your world, although maybe you don't yet identify with it fully yet.

So you think ahead, maybe months, when you can finally let your ex go, and be rid of the pain, to be replaced with growing love instead. And be happy regarding your ex.
You wonder, "Could it be true?" That the separation or pain he caused grows into love?
You said, "Yes."
Which makes your thought of the ex very happy.

So you see your ex will disappear, as all is resolved.
And you wake up to that message.
Or maybe it was just a dream, for that to happen.

**Superman1** · 07-10-2013 02:47 PM

Maybe you saw the work regarding him you need to do, to enjoy yourself again, and it will be hard exercise or maybe you were racing to get it done.
You were watching this in your mind.

Unless you still feel attached to him, you wanting to talk to him can mean the resolution with the idea of him again.
Either you feel inadequate to approach this, or for being left by him.
Or both. Because a force stopped you from going near the thought of him. So it is still painful or hard to confront, I think.
So, your thought of him drives off, with you stuck in park - or not moving ahead.