Disturbing murder dream, Please help!
I hope you can help me interpret this dream. This is a very graphic and disturbing dream so if you are bothered by gore please do not read on...A little background first. I am 41 years old. Divorced one year ago. I remarried and have two boys, 11 and 13 years old, from my first marriage. My new wife is having a hard time with the boys as any step parent does. We are also have had discussions about people who she is talking to that I don't like her talking to, namely, other guys that she has had relationships with in the past. I also have an old girlfriend, or fling rather, who is still wanting to be friends or more than friends with me. This is causing me stress because I don't want to be in another unfaithful relationship. I love my new wife dearly and would do anything for her.
I am also having a rough time with my ex who is continuing to treat my boys bad and putting herself ahead of the boys. My new wife is wanting me to take her back to court and get full custody of the boys.
I also have a boss that is having a fling with a married co-worker and I have to deal with listening to him about that all the time and dealing with a stressful job as it is, and having to deal with all the problems associated with him having an affair with a co-worker, unfair practices to other co-workers, policy changes while dealing with his lover etc... Then this last week was a busy week for us at work and a quite stressful one.
I would consider myself an atheist so one part of the dream is interesting to me.
Aside from that, I have just now begun to explore Buddhism and am beginning to learn about myself things that I never knew before or didn't want to acknowledge. That is a lot of stuff on my plate...Put all that together and I get this dream last night. I actually had several weird dreams but I don't remember them, only this one.
Start of the dream...
Things that I didn't see in the dream but I knew. My oldest son and I were in the mafia, and we were out in a field at a ranch I grew up on with another nameless, faceless guy we were going to kill.
So the dream opens with this guy kneeling on the ground in front of an old 1930's sedan that was black with chrome. My son and I were wearing black suits with black shiny shoes and gangster style hats, with white shirts. He was holding a modern style machine gun like an M16. He looks as the guy then turns to me and sweeps me at waist, and upper leg level with the machine gun and then turns to the other guy and shoots him. I react by breaking his neck. He then turns to me and tells me that he is OK. And that the reason he shot me first is because he thought that I had done this type of thing before. Then I reach up and tip his head forward and it is severed except some skin and he is dead. But there is no blood. I tip his head back and he says he is OK again and he is happy but concerned. I tip his head forward again and he says he is dying, and that he is going to heaven. I think to myself about the "experiment" that happened centuries ago with the scientist who wanted to see how long you live after you were decapitated and the talked the guy on the guillotine to blink as long as he could after the decapitation and I thought that he could still be alive. But think that it is strange that he can talk without being connected to his lungs. (I do have a medical background) My son said that he saw gold streets in heaven. I asked him if he could see God and he didn't answer.
That was the end of the dream.
Very disturbing dream, I would never harm my son or anyone else and I have never had a dream like this before. I don't really want to talk to anyone I know about this because it is so disturbing. Please help me make sense of this.