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      Smile Same Boy/Man in dreams since very little

      Ever since I was probably about 3 years old I have had dreams with this man. Very vivid, sometimes lucid. When I was younger he was always my protector. Always telling me it would be alright. The same dream for quite some time. Sleeping on a black bed in a white room he would enter and sit on my bed to tell me it would be ok. Always with the black hair and piericing blue eyes. Longer hair when I was younger. Shorter hair in most recent.

      As the years went on and I was around 10-14 the dreams took on a new feel, he was still there, he would dance with me. Still telling me he would always protect me. Such as one: I went to a rave party (I've never been to one before IRL) with my best friend at the time. I walk into the doors and was aprehensive. Colorful strobe lights going, loud music. A few steps in the door, I am whisked away by my dream man, and we dance. Old fashion style dancing like in a ballroom style. The noise seems to disappear and I feel at ease as I look into his eyes and he says to me that he will always watch over me and protect me. After a few moments he releases me by the door. I walk out and me and my friend go and sit on a curb and watch vehicles go by. I tell her about my dream man. She acts unconcerned, says he just cares about you.

      Around 15 he started staying in the background more but was there. Watching. Such as: I was at my best friend at the times house and it was night time. Something was wrong but my friend said so and so was watching so it was ok, when I noticed him in the ditch I felt at ease. Never did hear his name.

      At age 16, I had a dream where I was standing across a bridge away from a creepy old castle. I was wearing a big dress. Very royal looking. I was a tad nervous but I knew I had to go across the bridge. So I did. Upon reaching the other side the door to the castle opens and there is my dream man but something is off about him. It doesn't feel like its really him. It looks like him but it doesn't. He grabs me and we start dancing. Ballroom style again. But this time he is more forceful. He has always been so gentle. We dance throughout the entire castle which still has a creepy feeling and I do not feel at ease with this man. We dance to the roof of the building. Once we reach the center we stop and still holding my hand he steps back. He says he can take me with him. We can live together. We can be happy. He said all I have to say is yes. He said I have an option though. I can say yes if I want to go with him or say CEO if I don't. I said CEO. Dream ended.

      Didn't have a dream where he was noticeably in it for years.

      Now at age 21 soon to be 22. He was in my dream again last night.

      It started out like I was in a sims game and the place I lived kept getting redone. And the baby in the crib kept crawling out ( I have no child IRL) but then I walked through the back door into this cave thing with carpet on the floors. There were other people there. Discussing how to get out.

      There was a door at the back and we walked up to and opened the door and it was a restaurant. But we got trays like in school and food put on our plates and we were walking in line and they all sat so then it was just me walking. I felt like I knew everyone and knew where I was going. Kept walking through the maze of people and tables and came to a little room with four people in it each at their own table. They all looked at me and one said. "Well where ya gonna sit we all want ya by us." So I stood there in thought for awhile. Well being the goofy that I am, I grab a chair and sit equally in the middle of them all and they laughed.
      One said something about "he's gonna love you."
      One boy there started joking and I had this long ribbon paper with lots of words written on it and I shoved it at him.
      Then as if on signal they all get up and go through another door and I follow

      Now I'm in a dress, flowy beautiful off the shoulder very wood nymph water nymph style. My hair is long and I have braids on each side but hair is still out. Like the crown of braids that goes the whole length of hair and most of the hair is still loose.
      We walk into this huge mansion castle thing like 20 floors tall.

      When I walk in the door they place this metal bracelet on me.

      I go to what I assume is the dining hall. There is this boy probably 6ft tall and lean. Black hair and blue eyes, piercing blue eyes (My dream man/boy about my age now in other dreams he seemed older than me but now hes about my age) . I could tell by his clothes he was a servant of some sort. We locked eyes and there was a spark. My heart fluttered. I felt nervous but relaxed.

      I went up to my room which was the top floor. There was an elevator but I chose the stairs, huge spiral and you couldn't fall off. Something held you back.

      My room was huge with lots of flowy things hanging around. Many horse related things there as well. I adored my room but felt lonely.

      Well many days that servant boy had to bring me things. New clothes. Supplies. Ect.

      But the man of the house. Big and dark. Beautiful man but terrifying. Always escorted me from my room out to anywhere.

      But the more I spent with the servant boy the more I loved him. The man of the house started sensing something was up.

      One day while the servant boy was in my room he said the bracelets are life bracelets. They tell the truth and show you the one you are meant to be with. He said if you are meant to be with someone the bracelets would lock and connect sharing life data. He leaned over and kissed me and grabbed my bracelet hand. All women wore theirs on their left and all men on their right. As soon as he grabbed my hand the bracelet connected and locked. Spooked I jumped back and giggled. He said it's ok. You don't have to be ready yet. But we are for each other. And whenever I'm ready he will be waiting.

      Well weeks went by and I could tell the man of the house was getting anxious. He made speeches every night to the dinner room. Well this particular night as I was sitting next to him as always. He said tonight was the night to find out if we were meant to be!

      Shock over took me! He lifted a glass of wine to toast and the whole room cheered and drank. I played along but I already knew the truth and so did the servant boy who also looked shocked as he was serving tables.

      Well that evening the lord or man of the house told all the servants to not enter my room as he planned to be there so he could get whatever I needed.

      He escorted me back to my room and we sat there. I was too scared to say anything.

      He started talking about all his plans. About us. About making me "his queen". Me giving birth to his children. About the conquering he had planned and so much more.

      After talking to me for a couple hours. He leaned in and told me what the boy had already told me about the bracelets. I was so scared. He grabbed me very forcefully and pushed his lips to mine and took my left hand. But instead of going together. My hand repelled away from his and both of us were struck with a vision of truth. He of me and my boy and me of what was to happen now.

      He yelled very angrily "NO!!!" As I wheeled backwards screaming, terrified. He screamed, " you little whore!!!!! I have put so much time into finding you!!!! All that time and what for!!!! For you to whore out to some low life servant boy!!!!!!" I was at this point lying on the floor trying to protect myself since I had fallen in my attempt to get away. He was nearing me with his hand raised. I managed to get up and I took off down the stairs. Id barely gotten to the stairs and there was my servant boy, he caught me. He said he knew something would go wrong and waited. He just held me and said we need to leave.

      Just as he said this the lord came out and upon looking at me in the boys arms he seemingly calmed down. Said "you know what, I don't care. Go back to your room. I'll leave you be"

      But the vision I had, I knew that wasn't true but I wanted to believe so my boy brought me back to my room and there we sat. Just looking at each other. He finally said " what's wrong? He said he'd leave us be?"
      I explained that I had had a vision when he tried to connect our bracelets. That it was bad. I didn't however tell him the vision. He just held me and stayed with me all night as we both finally dozed off. The next morning the lord never came to get me.

      We both stayed. We could hear the dining hall cheering as the lord lied and said it went well and I was getting my rest. That the marriage will proceed at now a sooner date of next week rather than the planned month away. My head was spinning. This cannot be happening.

      My boy said we need to get out of here. We started to leave. Just as we left the room we were both grabbed and sacks put over our heads.

      We were taken quite a ways away.

      When the sacks were removed we both were at separate doors on either side of a hallway. The doors read female separation and male separation. I then knew what my visions were about. Our hands were cuffed and we were ordered to remove our clothing, all of them. We did so. ( really don't know how with cuffs but whatever) and we both looked back at each other standing there. When we locked eyes. The boy went frantic. He started fighting. Broke away and got over to me. He said we have to complete the connection. A full connection cannot be separated. He kissed me and our hands automatically went together. Frantically kissing me and I felt scared but reassured and the bracelets connected and wrapped together. I was filled with love, and every other emotion. I saw his life from child to that moment. As he saw all mine. The guards got to is and ripped us apart but didn't know what to do. The connection was complete. I was in tears and flooded with every emotion. He too had tears in his eyes. It was the most wonderful thing ever.

      The guards called the lord and even over the phone you could hear how upset he was but he knew there was nothing he could do. He cut us loose.

      End of dream




      Any interpretations on something like this? Thank you!
      Last edited by Cheysdreamer; 11-15-2013 at 03:25 AM. Reason: Needs more details, read rules after the post, putting full dreams in.

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      In real life are you happy in your marriage? If so, I hope you will not let this dream interfere with your happiness. That said even happy marriages have their issues. I would say my marriage is overall a happy one, but there are times when I do not feel that way, and I bet most married people have such times. This dream may be a reflection of your mind having such doubts, I think.

      I think unless you believe in true love that transcends lifetimes with reincarnation and shared dreaming and destiny rather than free will or some variation on such, the only natural scientifically acceptable explanation for your dream that I can think of is that the man in your dreams is a male part of your own personality. While biologically we are male or female, but our minds do have elements of both. Perhaps when your male dream character departed it was because at that time you were more feminine or anyway there was less need for both genders in your personality. Now your male part may be read setting itself perhaps because you have issues uniting different parts of your personality that you perceive as more male and more female. I know that for me for example I have such issues such as how much in control I want to be versus how mucho would prefer others to take charge. And something like that the mind could translate into a male versus female conflict. In fact I actually did have a dream last night in which I was in conflict with a male caterer over the vision of how a feast should be arranged. So I think my male caterer may also be viewed as a more male part of my own personality, except that in my case I had never seen that dream character before, whereas yours is a recurring dream character.

      Of course I can be wrong.
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      Thank you for your reply JoannaB!

      I feel I am happy and satisfied with my real life marriage. I do not plan to let the dream get in my way though it does have me beyond curious at this point.

      Though I do sometimes lean to the things you mention. Your interpretation is very nice and I do like it, and seems to make a lot of sense.

      I am curious, as well, to what others interpret as everyone interprets differently.

      I believe I failed to mention, this man in my dreams, he is by far the most stunning man I've seen, whenever I see him my heart flutters but in a knowing way.

      I am loving this site by the way!
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