Thread: ex-girlfriend charged with "seduction"

What I am thinking is that part of you secretly wishes to seduce your ex-girlfriend, although another part of you knows that would not be right, and so you project the seduction charges onto her, when really it is you who is thinking those thoughts - when you say that it is all your fault, in a way it is true, in that the dream is all in your mind and thus the thoughts of seduction and ex-girlfriend are your fault - though of course should not blame yourself because it is your subconscious thoughts which you can't control, and your conscious waking self points out that you wouldn't want to cause her marriage and family to break up, so it is not like you consciously want these dreams, can't help it. I frankly do not think that the ex-girlfriend was really trying to tell you something in these dreams, but rather that you wished you could tell something to her.

Do you have someone special in your life now? If not, your dreams may actually even not be so much about that particular ex-girlfriend, but more about the general ideas of "girlfriend" and "seduction" and the desirability thereof, sure relationships are complicated, and bring a lot of complexities with them including feelings of guilt at times, but relationships are desirable - we are social human beings who long for intimacy, and I suspect these dreams show that you long for it, and if I may suggest, in waking life someone other than your ex-girlfriend greater intimacy with someone else will hopefully resolve the issues of dreams of her. However, if you do have someone else in your life now, is there something about that particular ex that was special that you miss about the current significant other in your life?

Did you want some business to be satisfyingly resolved? Something you wanted to see clearly in a big way regarding her?
Perhaps part of you felt she seduced you, influenced you, in something, perhaps the break-up. And maybe this has been consuming you or your time.
But you saw you were sorry for it. That it was your fault and it shouldn't have happened.

So your previous dreams could have been trying to tell you something along thse lines about her regarding your relationship to her, if it was not resolved like you seem to have done better now.