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      SERIOUSLY NEEDS HELP! Don't know what it means

      Hi, I'm new to this but okay for the past two weeks I have been dreaming about my ex! (Broke up last year of November) but two days ago this dream was so real. Okay my dream started off as I'm dating this girl she's a (reality tv show star) we are actually engaged in the dream and we live in Florida her home state but we fly to chicago my home city and I have all my friends from other states meets us there! Now yes I'm gay I'm a girl! But anyway okay I let my fiancé go off wit her friends while in Chicago so they can shop and get ready for her bachelorat party that night so I meet up with my studs friends and I show them the things I use to do in Chicago an later that night I took them to a party I left to go pick up my fiancé from her party to take her back to the hotel but I go back to the party to get my friends since I dropped them off. I'm outside talking to some old friends and my ex and her new girl was there sitting there and I'm just talking and there listening and I'm going on and on how I'm getting married in three days and how imma miss everybody and I glance at my ex and she has a look on her face like what! PAUSE (we have each other name tattooed in the dream and in real life) so I approach her and her new gf an I'm like I paid for is to get each other name covered up and she looked so hurt but agreed so I told her to meet me at the shop tomorrow! The next day my fiancé and I and her daughter comes with me to get my cover up and 30 mins later my ex and her gf and her son shows up. So my fiancé leaves to go do some last min shopping and my ex approaches me and say can I speak to you outside and I said okay. She starts off with how can I get married and why are we getting cover ups and don't I still love her an she breaks down crying and I say I waited on you for so many years to come back you never came back and now I'm moved on! (But have I?) so we finish talking it ends in a hug and a we not gone get a cover up! But when we get back in the shop I grab my friend which is the tattoo artist I freak out like what am I suppose to this I have this beautiful woman I suppose to marry in two days now and my ex hit me with all this I'm confused idk what I'm suppose to do I love this one but I'm In love with my ex! I can't leave my fiancé I care about hurting her and I love her daughter to death! After all that everybody heard me, so I walk out I see May ex covering my name and I seen it I was devastated! So I went on and got hers covered! My fiancé called and said my mother needed her so she went on and went to my mom house. So it was raining and I notice my ex and her gf and kid was walking so I offered a ride and they took it. And basically long dream short because it's defly more. But is my dream trying to tell me that I'm not over my ex or is it whoever I have in the future I shouldn't let go of for my ex or is that I'm so jealous of her new relationship that I'm so jealous that my focus is to make her jealous now! Now yes I'm in a relationship almost a yr on the 4th is it that I'm not happy and only my ex can make me happy or my now gf is nothing my ex so I'm not satisfied. All I know is I dream of my ex every night I think of my ex when I wake up but it's always the same fiancé and me trying some way somehow to invite my ex into something dealing with me can some tell me something Ik this is long and I'm sorry but yeah lol okay
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      I think this dream means that relationships are complicated, and having a history of former relationship with some unresolved issues is complicated, and that's life. Lol

      It's definitely not good to be dreaming about an ex every night, so ideally you can hopefully change that for the better. Perhaps there is still something about your former relationship that you need to resolve or accept to help you let go? Perhaps there is something on your mind during waking life that reminds you of your ex? Also by now it may be an unhealthy cycle of expectations where you kind of subconsciously expect to dream of her? Dreams are driven by expectations.

      If I were you I would try to become more self aware of thoughts and feelings during waking life on more of a meta level - a greater awareness of what you are thinking an feeling, and how that could be triggering these dreams.

      Also you might want to look into lucid dreaming - most of this forum is about lucid dreaming. Lucid dreaming can be a very useful tool for dealing with recurring nightmares, and recurring dream elements can also be useful dream signs helping you figure out that it is a dream, and taking control of it. This could especially help if the dreams are due to expectations of such dreams as opposed to actual ongoing issues.
      You may say I'm a dreamer.
      But I'm not the only one
      - John Lennon

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