dream of ex girlfriend and death of a stranger

**anastasiaKa** · 12-19-2013 03:34 AM

Hey there. I had a dream last night that was extremely vivid and really strange. It involved my ex girlfirend, whom i've only just ended things with and still very much care about her. We're trying to stay friends, so there's no hatred there. I love her, but I can't be in a serious relationship. Anyways, in the dream, we were at my cottage helping my dad set up his antennaes when he asked us to move a bunch of bricks over. We started doing that and this old man started heloing us. I have no idea who this man is. we were moving the bricks when the old man knocked the entire wall on top of me. Naturally, we got kind of angry. Both me and my ex started yelling at him and then he just fell over and died. My ex started screaming and crying and I can still remember his eyes glassed over. Then I woke up. Any interpretations? I've been looking through websites and found meanings like death signifying change, and brick walls being emotional barriers. I always had trouble opening up and staying commited in relationships, could this be telling me something about my relationship with my ex? Any help is welcome
thanks in advance!

**TwitchLucidity** · 12-19-2013 03:59 AM

I think it might, mind me I have only had one girlfriend and that was when I was real young, but I think your subconscious is doing this.

Ex is there spending time with you while you must've been together, old man was helping and he must of been a renactment of whats going to happen or whats going to happen with your relationship.

I dont know alot, since I am new, but I am pretty sure this is what the dream was about.

**LucidBrot** · 12-19-2013 07:40 AM

i think nobody can say what it means except you- such 'signs' are not universal but mean to anyone something different.

Ask yourself what part of the dream represents your wishes, your fears. That way you'll learn to know yourself.

This idea of dreams tell the future...is bullshit, i think

**AnotherDreamer** · 12-19-2013 08:19 PM

Originally Posted by LucidBrot

i think nobody can say what it means except you- such 'signs' are not universal but mean to anyone something different.

Ask yourself what part of the dream represents your wishes, your fears. That way you'll learn to know yourself.

I really like what you said there

signs really aren't universal, since they are an expression of your unconscious feelings about things. They are going to be specific to you; they will be related to how you feel about the 'sign' and what it means to you.

As far as dreams telling the future, I used to agree with you. My sister gave some pretty convincing evidence of telling the future with dreams though. She has had a lot of dreams before her friends or relatives die, like a week before. They will come talk to her and tell her goodbye. She tells me about them and I used to be super skeptical until the people actually died

. Now I take them a little more seriously.

**LucidBrot** · 12-19-2013 08:38 PM

woah!
then keep her awake or more people will die xP

maybe she subconsciously notices that the people are ill...in that case it'd fit in my "view" on such things.
thanks for sharing that experience

**AnotherDreamer** · 12-19-2013 11:33 PM

Hahahaha. Yeah, the people that died. 1 we found out had cancer, 1 had a stroke, and the 3rd killed herself from severe depression/schizophrenia. So you might be right, since none of them were sudden accidents. I guess I still haven't had my mind made up about it yet.