I don't know what the dream means. But the central symbol in the dream seems to be music, and therefore one could ask oneself what music is, what the dream is expressing when it says "she need music to relate to people", and "the dreamer thinks it's childish".
Music is perhaps our most primal expression of art, creativity and not the least emotion. When we are "in music", we are in our emotional self, not in our rational, thinking self.
So, perhaps, when she says "I need to relate to another person through music", she is saying, "I need to relate to another person emotionally", beyond all judgment, argument, even reason.
If the dreamer says "this is childish", it may be because he is "up in his head", he is judging, thinking, reasoning -- let's call it blue. He is blue. The girls says, if you want to connect to me, you need to be "red". But since red is rejected by the blue mind, it has a quality of inferiority in his inner life, and is perceived as, say, dumb and pointless -- childish.
So, if this is true, the dream -- an unconscious story which often tries to balance the conscious mind -- is telling the dreamer that if you want to establish a relationship, you need to do so via the red, the music, the emotional self.
This would imply that the dreamer has to change a little bit, and that is not no simple task. For some it takes a lifetime, for others it's a matter of sudden breakthrough.
But I do not think that your inner self is making judgement whether you should go after this girl or that, that is not how dreams work in my humble opinion and experience, for whatever it is worth.
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