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      kissing my friend, cheating on my girlfriend???

      I recently had a very confusing dream.
      My girlfriend and I were happily married (I'm 15, so it must have been set a while in the future even though nobody looked older) but she was on a business trip somewhere. One of my female friends was staying at my place (I'm not sure why. Also, I have no feelings for this friend).
      My friend and I started watching a movie together and we were sharing a sleeping bag (we were indoors though). Then we started waking out.
      I woke up pretty confused. An interpretation of this dream would definitely be much appreciated
      Thanks in advance,
      Chris

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      Making out, not waking out sorry

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      Absolutely nothing to worry about. Most dreams are just random, made up from bits and pieces of day residue, which is why we often dream about people and places we know. Bizarre ridiculous stuff happens all the time in dreams, it doesn't mean anything. The only way it could cause a problem is if you tell her about it..

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      Quote Originally Posted by Darkmatters View Post
      Absolutely nothing to worry about. Most dreams are just random, made up from bits and pieces of day residue, which is why we often dream about people and places we know. Bizarre ridiculous stuff happens all the time in dreams, it doesn't mean anything. The only way it could cause a problem is if you tell her about it..
      Agree. I don't understand why people are always trying to interpret dreams and find something true in them. That's silly. Last night I dreamed of riding a blue goat with Obama, hmmmm, what does that mean?

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      Quote Originally Posted by Darkmatters View Post
      Absolutely nothing to worry about. Most dreams are just random, made up from bits and pieces of day residue, which is why we often dream about people and places we know. Bizarre ridiculous stuff happens all the time in dreams, it doesn't mean anything. The only way it could cause a problem is if you tell her about it..
      Thirded. We often have romantic dreams about people we have absolutely no conscious interest in. The more you become familiar with your dreams, the easier it will be to shrug off episodes like this that seem disturbing. As Darkmatters says, there is really nothing to them. Feel better, and go spend some time with your girlfriend!

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      Quote Originally Posted by ThreeCat View Post
      The more you become familiar with your dreams, the easier it will be to shrug off episodes like this
      Lol - this will be particularly funny to people in the UK - shrugging it off happens to be slang…

      I agree that the majority of dreams are nonsense and that people have a tendency to try to read too much into them, but there are definitely times when they can tell us important things. That's mostly when we're in denial of something or just haven't quite consciously figured something out that the subconscious already has. As Jung said, dreams are often a correction of some consciously held attitude. I also believe they sometimes show us things inverted or twisted in some way to help us rethink things at important times. It's a good idea in times of crisis to pay attention to your dreams.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Darkmatters View Post
      Lol - this will be particularly funny to people in the UK - shrugging it off happens to be slang…
      Any help with this one? I've Googled and can only find the American meaning

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      Try substituting different terms for the first word - you'll get it. Especially keeping in mind it was a sex dream..

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      Ah.

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