Recurring dream that I'm peeing in my pants on purpose
So, this is really weird. I've never wet the bed, and when I wake up from this dream, sometimes I don't even need to pee that badly so it's not my body trying to tell me to wake up.
I will just, on purpose, completely wet my pants in the dream (and not in real life). I'm an adult female, and I don't have any health issues related to my bladder or kidneys in real life.
To recall the whole dream, usually I go somewhere private to do it but sometimes I'm out and around people, sometimes I'm soaking wet anyway because it's raining or flooding and sometimes my clothes are ruined already for some reason (in the dream). I'm in my bedroom, or the bathroom most often. Sometimes I'm looking in the mirror and usually I'm wearing jeans.
Often, there's a crack between where the door should've closed and the old hallway in my house, so I'll be trying to clean up quick, wash my clothes, shampoo the rug, spray perfume, and "hide" the damage of what I just did (there's always an incredible sense of shame).
Other times when it's where I'm in public in the dream, I will actually be mad that no one notices. Some background information that might be relevant:
- I was sexually abused in my late childhood/early teens, the sense of shame in this dream feels very similar
- I'm not sure if I was getting it before the abuse or if it started right around when the abuse started
- One time I had it where I was trying to get permission to go to the bathroom in the dream, from a teacher, and they weren't letting me, and I was afraid it was going to happen, and then I actually had what felt like a flashback to abuse in the dream?
That's all I can think of. To be as detailed as possible, I was afraid of wetting my pants in school when teachers were strict about it as a child. I never did, but was very afraid of that. I also feel overwhelmed a lot and don't express myself that much in real life. Does anyone have any interpretations or relate by any weird chance? Thanks.