dream on the nature of reality?

hello so my last 2 dreams were strange and i couldn't really understand what or why i had them (specially for someone that doesn't usually remember dreams at all) i have had no changes in my normal awake life just that dull boring everyday life i have had for years.
the first one was 2 nights ago i was in a place were there were giant igloo like buildings and in front of the entrance of the buildings there where grass fields it felt like a school for some reason.
I was in one of the grass fields and i was talking to a person, we were discussing the plasticity of reality and how that elasticity is not only in the dreaming state (i and the person i was talking to knew i was dreaming and could make choices inside the dream world) how time and space is not like a river of clear waters but much more like a spider web and how we could move from one string to the next and each of those strings could be bent so waking reality could in fact be changed at will and time could be manipulated to somewhat of a degree (this person used an example if for example you are pumped on adrenaline time starts to slow down and while ''time'' is not being manipulated our perception of it does making our choices different therefor changing the outcome of reality based on our perceived difference on the time space continuum so in a way we did manipulate time by dilating it and we did change reality by our reaction to the dilated time)
then he showed me how most people know this in the dream world and we experimented on using ''powers'' inside the dream state we turned back time flown changed the look of things (changed the shape of the buildings and color of the grass) invoked flame and ice moved objects and bent them into other objects a fork into a spoon and then he told that there is no real difference in a spoon or anything else after all the dream state was my share of personal reality and the only big difference between that and waking reality is that waking reality is shared so in order to change it on the level we do in dreams we need some sort of permission by those sharing it
so this was the first dream and this is what i can remember and understand clearly (there is a bunch of small details but that would turn the text massive)
The second one was a continuation on this same topic but more in the lines of changing your own perception of reality (voluntarly changing the speed of time and your own physical body) and if this one was hard to write the second one i am still in the process of writting in my dream journal (that i started because of this dreams)...