Rejecting best friend and adopting two babies
I was living with an old school friend who was separated from her boyfriend + has a child (which is also like that in real life).
I think that we were living in my mother's office where I have had a lot of good memories with my best guy friend the last month, since we were studying there together. The office was emptied and it looked very poorly arranged.
I was very poor and I somehow ended up with a toddler and a baby that I had adopted. The toddler did look like him and had my curls and was very active and running around, while the baby was crying in a dolls bed (the one I had for my dolls when I was a kid). I looked at the toddler running all around, the baby crying and my friend which I was living with who was annoying. I asked myself "what am I doing here?" I felt completely overwhelmed, and I missed my best guy friend very much.
I couldn't handle it anymore so I called my best guy friend to come and pick me up. He answered "you know all you have to do for me to come over is to accept to be my girlfriend." and I said "Ok". Then he arrived in an old car (which is strange, since his is very modern and he likes good cars) and we went in a house which was quite old but very beautiful, yet traditional. We took a time to eat in a very little dining room wich had one wall missing. The toddler who was very active and noisy, was suddenly very quite, almost absent. The baby who was crying was sleeping very thigtly in my arms. We were talking and we were choosing a name for the baby. I told him we could use his mother's name, but neither him or me could remember what her name was. I was sitting very close to him, his hand around my back and I realized I felt incredibly attracted to him.
His sister showed up and asked us when we were getting married. I replied "in three weeks, because I really feel attracted to him". He smiled and kissed me, then I climbed the stairs who were very straight and almost infinite (I could not see where they were ending) to put the baby asleep and my dream ended while I was climbing these stairs.
I had a discussion this week with my best guy friend about us having to take our distances if we wanted to move on with other relationships. Although not being romantically involved, a lot of people consider us being a couple. And we are indeed very very close. He was not happy about the discussion and since that day we did not call anymore, only text. I miss him and his presence very much, but he told me last week he was falling for someone else and I didn't have a choice. I am torn between staying and being the best "best friend" even if it hurts, and between choosing from my own good. I think being away from me is hard for him too.
But I cannot explain that I had rejected him once in my dream, because I would never do that in real life. Even if I'm not so much in love with him. I don't know what these babies mean. The toddler was very active until my friend showed up, and then it faded away. Also, we only chose a name for the baby, not the toddler. And the toddler looked like a mix of both of us, even if being adopted.
I feel like the crying baby was my need for affection who was very high and critical when him being away (like right now in my life) . When my guy showed up, the baby did not cry anymore and slept very close to me, and when we had set a date for our wedding, I took the baby to sleep. So this is definitely my need affection. I did wake up with my arm around my belly, like I was carrying the baby very close. That's really the last feeling I had from my dream. The baby in my arms and me walking the stairs. His mother does not like me so much, maybe that's why we decided to give the baby her name? But it doesn't explain why we couldn't remember her name.