Extremely strange dream?

I had a dream of a girl who I recently left lifting up her shirt to show me her stomach and she was pregnant and not only that but my name was tattooed on her stomach in bold print. The dream seemed to have fast forwarded in time and I was at a dinner with my family and that girl. I look over and see a little boy sitting down at the other end of the table. I look at my brother and tell him how much that boy looks like me. And my brother agreed with me. I asked the girl if he's mine and she said yes. My grandma grabs the boy by his arms in a way I didn't like. In my mind, the whole time I was thinking of how it feels to be a father and I was also thinking about buying the boy a dictionary because I wanted to educate him. I then asked for his birth certificate. The whole time the girl was ignoring me and acting childish when I was very serious about the situation. The boy looked so much like me but mixed with her(keep in mind he is easly 3 or 4 years old by now). I would appreciate your insight into the meaning of this dream. Thank you.

P.S if it helps I made love to this girl the 26th of October and did not pull out and she held in my "stuff" in her the whole night. Kind of like she wanted to get pregnant. I don't know what the chances of her being pregnant from a one-time thing are. But I'm not with her or in contact with her anymore.

Hi,
What I've learnt from my own dreams is that there is nothing in a dream by chance. Therefore, if you answer the following questions, to the best of your recall ability, I will happily give you an interpretation of your dream as if it was mine.

First tell me the number of scenes in your dream. THEN FOR EACH SCENE I want you to tell me the following:

Location:
I want you to look in your mind, as the observer, in the following directions and tell me what you see:
1. To your left.
2. To your right.
3. In front of you.
4. Behind you.
5. Above you.
6. Below you.

It’s all right if you can’t recall much. Simply tell me what you see and make sure I know what direction it is from you the dreamer. In my interpretation, you’ll see how this is a symbol itself.

When you are describing what you see, tell me in as much detail as you can recall about it. So things I am very interested in is what are walls, doors, windows, stairs, tables, etc. made of, age/style, colour, etc. The same goes for anything outside. You’ll see in my interpretations how all of this tells us lots about ourselves.

Lighting:
1. Tell me what the lighting was like, i.e. bright, dull, black, cloudy etc.
2. Then tell me where the light was coming from.
3. Can you tell the time of day or season?
Lighting is important in a dream because it’s a symbol of vibrational state. I’ll explain this during my interpretation for you.

Objects:
If there are any objects in a dream scene, then tell me about them as follows:
1. Shape, size, colour and what they were made of.
2. Where the object is in the dream relative to you, i.e. left, right, etc.

I’ve found objects in dreams are usually symbols of things we first need to concentrate on spiritually. I’ll explain this in the interpretation if you had any objects in any of the scenes.

People:
For each person in a dream scene I want you to do the following:
1. Describe them to me in as much detail as you can recall. This includes age, gender, clothes, colour of the clothes, what the clothes were made of.
2. Tell me where they were in the dream scene relative to you, i.e. left, right, below, etc.
3. Tell me if they were lying down, sitting, standing, walking, etc.
4. Tell me what they did with you. Don’t skip the details. Simply tell me exactly what happened.
5. If there are any conversations or thoughts between you and the person or others, then tell me EXACTLY WHAT WAS SAID. This is important.
6. If there were others you couldn’t see but felt, then let me know where you felt they were in a scene relative to you the dreamer, i.e. left, right, etc.
7. For people who you know in real life, tell me anything that's different about them in the dream versus the real life version.

Animals. Etc.:
If there were any animals, insects, birds, reptiles, fish or whatever in any of the scenes, then tell me. Describe them in as great as detail as you can recall. Also let me know where they were in the dream scene relative to you, i.e. left, right, etc. Then let me know of any thoughts that passed between you and them.

Thoughts/Feelings:
This is a very important part of every dream scene. Take your time, go back and tell me the following for each scene:
1. What was your first thought/feeling as the dream scene began.
2. Tell me of any thoughts/feeling changes as the dream scene progressed and let me know where in the scene this occurred.
3. Tell me your last thought/feeling as the dream ended.

I realize this is a lot of work. HOWEVER, I think you might be surprised by how much you can learn about yourself from a single scene.

With kind regards,
Guy:)

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Originally Posted by ghuntington

Hi,
What I've learnt from my own dreams is that there is nothing in a dream by chance. Therefore, if you answer the following questions, to the best of your recall ability, I will happily give you an interpretation of your dream as if it was mine.

First tell me the number of scenes in your dream. THEN FOR EACH SCENE I want you to tell me the following:

Location:
I want you to look in your mind, as the observer, in the following directions and tell me what you see:
1. To your left.
2. To your right.
3. In front of you.
4. Behind you.
5. Above you.
6. Below you.

It’s all right if you can’t recall much. Simply tell me what you see and make sure I know what direction it is from you the dreamer. In my interpretation, you’ll see how this is a symbol itself.

When you are describing what you see, tell me in as much detail as you can recall about it. So things I am very interested in is what are walls, doors, windows, stairs, tables, etc. made of, age/style, colour, etc. The same goes for anything outside. You’ll see in my interpretations how all of this tells us lots about ourselves.

Lighting:
1. Tell me what the lighting was like, i.e. bright, dull, black, cloudy etc.
2. Then tell me where the light was coming from.
3. Can you tell the time of day or season?
Lighting is important in a dream because it’s a symbol of vibrational state. I’ll explain this during my interpretation for you.

Objects:
If there are any objects in a dream scene, then tell me about them as follows:
1. Shape, size, colour and what they were made of.
2. Where the object is in the dream relative to you, i.e. left, right, etc.

I’ve found objects in dreams are usually symbols of things we first need to concentrate on spiritually. I’ll explain this in the interpretation if you had any objects in any of the scenes.

People:
For each person in a dream scene I want you to do the following:
1. Describe them to me in as much detail as you can recall. This includes age, gender, clothes, colour of the clothes, what the clothes were made of.
2. Tell me where they were in the dream scene relative to you, i.e. left, right, below, etc.
3. Tell me if they were lying down, sitting, standing, walking, etc.
4. Tell me what they did with you. Don’t skip the details. Simply tell me exactly what happened.
5. If there are any conversations or thoughts between you and the person or others, then tell me EXACTLY WHAT WAS SAID. This is important.
6. If there were others you couldn’t see but felt, then let me know where you felt they were in a scene relative to you the dreamer, i.e. left, right, etc.
7. For people who you know in real life, tell me anything that's different about them in the dream versus the real life version.

Animals. Etc.:
If there were any animals, insects, birds, reptiles, fish or whatever in any of the scenes, then tell me. Describe them in as great as detail as you can recall. Also let me know where they were in the dream scene relative to you, i.e. left, right, etc. Then let me know of any thoughts that passed between you and them.

Thoughts/Feelings:
This is a very important part of every dream scene. Take your time, go back and tell me the following for each scene:
1. What was your first thought/feeling as the dream scene began.
2. Tell me of any thoughts/feeling changes as the dream scene progressed and let me know where in the scene this occurred.
3. Tell me your last thought/feeling as the dream ended.

I realize this is a lot of work. HOWEVER, I think you might be surprised by how much you can learn about yourself from a single scene.

With kind regards,
Guy:)

Ok, I'll try. The first scene is in a house I believe in a living room. The lighting was normal. I remember facing her and she lifts up her shirt and I see that her stomach is large because she's pregnant. My consciousness zooms in and I see my name tattooed boldly on the side of her stomach almost like flashing saying look. Then the scene shifts to a dinner scene. I'm sitting down and the girl is sitting beside me. My grandma is sitting across from me. It's a large wooden table. My brother is standing behind me on my left side. The infant is sitting at the end of the table almost beside me. He is shy. I then look up at my brother and tell him how much that boy looks like me and my brother agrees with me. I've never seen this boy before. I then ask the girl beside me if he is mine and she confirms that he is. I sit there in a kind of a shock because it was as if I didn't know that she was carrying my child this whole time. The infant is clearly 3 or 4 years old by now so time has passed. I'm sitting there observing the boy. My grandma picks him up by both arms which I didn't like. I got a strong feeling of what it's like to be a father. I then look over to the girl and tell her I want to buy him a dictionary so he can speak and be educated. Keep in mind we're all sitting at the table. The scene shifts to an upstairs room. I ask her for his birth certificate. The whole time she is ignoring me and acting childish. I'm standing at a doorway watching her bend down to get something from under the bed. I believe it was the birth certificate. That's all I can remember.

Hi,

Thanks for making the effort to reply with more information. Hopefully, by the end of this interpretation, you’ll realize how much information is contained within a single dream scene for you to learn about….yourself!

The way I write my interpretations is to explain what the symbols mean in addition to interpreting your dream. This way, if it resonates within you, then you can use the information to interpret your own dreams going forward.

Below is my interpretation of your dream as if it was mine. Dreams are for each of us to interpret on our own. Therefore, if anything I say below doesn’t resonate with you, then simply discard it. So with that said, off I go…

When I do my own interpretations or that of others, I always start with the location. I could have located it anywhere, at any time in any reality and…I’ve located it in the living room of a house. I’ve learnt that locations help to “spiritually frame in” a dream.

I will take the first of several sidebars here to help you understand the framework I use when interpreting a dream. This one will cover what I’ve learned about beliefs, belief compartments, people and the age of people. Then I’ll return to myself in the living room.

In my dreams, things that are made by people are symbols of masculine and things of nature are symbols of feminine. I’ve learnt that before we incarnate, we carefully select the times we will live in, our families, life circumstances, challenges and potential exit points. We then carefully select our personality.

I’ve learnt we do this by selecting approximately 200 different “belief filters”. These are energy filters that have two polarities, a feminine one and a masculine one. We select the degree of polarity we are going to hold the belief, i.e. the degree of feminine or masculine. This then determines the belief vibratory level.

Each belief then works with the other beliefs, each with their own vibratory rate. They literally “filter our reality” by blocking out the greater reality vibrations we actually come from. They create the aura around us and create our thoughts/feelings for each moment.

We constantly tell ourselves about this in our dreams. We use symbolism to show ourselves about the beliefs and their limiting effects on us spiritually. We also show ourselves the “dis-ease’ created by some of our beliefs using colours in our dreams.

In my dreams buildings are symbols of what I call ‘belief compartments’. I’ve learnt that each wall is a symbol of a belief. Furniture within them are symbols of yet more beliefs that work with the overall beliefs to produce what I call are ‘belief effects’.

To symbolize to ourselves the many different types of beliefs we use in all our many lives, we often create our dreams in towns, cities or houses.

I’ve often found that in many of my dreams, people appear in the rooms or buildings. When I first began to record my dreams, many years ago, I frequently found myself in large warehouses full of boxes I had to climb over or in rooms in houses full of furniture. Imagine my surprise when I eventually learnt they boxes and furniture were symbols of masculine based beliefs I had to address first before I got to the walls!

As I spiritually listened to myself, over time, the rooms began to empty. Then I was walking through empty rooms. The next step was to see glass walls, windows and open doors, all symbols of how I was beginning to work my way out of the old belief walls. Then the walls began to disappear. In the end, I was usually flying over the old beliefs.

In many of my dreams when I began to keep a record of my dreams,, I would find myself in multi-storied houses. I then realized these are symbols of numerous belief compartments I use in one or more of my lives.

Then I found myself in towns and cities. I then realized that each one is a symbol of various belief compartments I have used in another life.

I will take another sidebar here and describe what I’ve learnt about people in my dreams…

When I first began recording my dreams, I would often find people in my dreams that I didn’t know or ones that I did know but they were doing strange things. When I tried to literally interpret my dreams, it usually didn’t work.

I had a near death experience 12 years ago that changed me. One of the changes was a determination to learn to meditate. I had stopped and started meditation all my life and had in effect gone nowhere in a hurry. So this time I was determined to stick with it.

I slowly learnt how to touch my “higher self”. One day, the thought came to me to use my higher self to assist me in interpreting my dreams. Then the dream gates swung wide open.

I’ve since learnt that people in my dreams may be who they are, symbols of my masculine and feminine, other lives, teachers, guides, oversoul, aspects of myself, people who I frequently incarnate with, etc.

When I first began to record my dreams I frequently began to see an old couple. They might change their appearance but there was almost always an old man and woman in the dream. Then a young girl and by appeared.

They too sometimes changed but they were now in the same dream as the old couple. However, they were “bit players” in my dreams as the old couple was the ones I was interacting with.

At first, I had no idea who these people were. Then, as I learnt to mediate and apply my higher self to my dream interpretations, my dreams gates swung open.

First, I learnt that the old man and women were symbols of my masculine and feminine. Next, I learnt that the young girl and boy were symbols of the feminine and masculine I could become. So I then used the terms “old masculine and feminine” and “young masculine and feminine” to describe these dream symbols to myself.

As I began to address my underlying beliefs, the old couple disappeared from my dreams and the young ones spiritually grew up.

I’ve learnt that people’s age in dreams is important.

When infants are in my dreams as other lives, this is usually a symbol we are just beginning our journey through the beliefs the dream is about.

When teenagers show up I realize I am making steady progress through my dreams.

When mature adults show up, it’s a sign that I am now spiritually maturing in dealing with the beliefs.

When old people show up in my dreams, I let out a sound of joy! It’s a sign that I am now ready to release the old beliefs.

I then learnt that things made out of natural materials are symbols of feminine beliefs that are now no longer working for me. In effect, spiritually speaking, they are now “dead” for me, i.e. dead trees – wood, etc. So, whenever I am in rooms made of wood or standing on wood, etc. I refer to this in my mind as “dead feminine”.

About a year and a half ago, I felt compelled to put together a free website documenting what I have learnt. At first, I didn’t want to because I felt what I had learnt was akin in my mind to a teaspoon of water compared to all the oceans’ water, i.e. not much. However the feeling persisted.

Today if you go to ‘learningfrommydreams’ dot com you’ll see what I created. If you go there, I suggest you look at 3 things. One is the meditation page where I list all sorts of different ways to meditate. Find one that works for you.

Then I recommend you read the dream discussion paper I posted on the website. It describes the symbolism I’ve learnt including people.

I recommend you look at the resources page where you’ll find an extensive list of things to look at.

Lastly, I want to make a note that we are the producers, directors, script writers and often main actors in our dreams. Therefore, there is nothing in our dreams by chance. It’s a language to teach ourselves about ourselves.

So with this said, back to my dream…

The first thing I note is that I am inside. When I am outside in a dream, it’s usually what I call a “teaching dream” as opposed to when I am inside something it’s what I call a “learning dream”. So what’s the difference?

When I am inside belief compartments, the belief walls effectively isolate me from my higher self. I am therefore usually learning on my own. As I progress, windows appear and then slowly walls disappear…all part of a learning process.

When I am outside, there are no belief walls constricting me. My higher self and others can then instruct me. That’s why I call it a “teaching dream”. So, in this first scene I am in a “learning dream”.

I have located my dream in a house. I’ve learnt that houses in my dreams are symbols of the various masculine based beliefs I use in this life. Each room is a symbol with each wall, floor and ceiling making up the room symbols of different masculine based beliefs working together.

In my dreams, “living rooms” are symbols of beliefs I have spiritually “lived in” many times in some of my other lives.

Next I note that I am standing in this scene. I’ll take a brief side bar here and tell you what I’ve learnt about sitting, standing, etc. and then return to my standing in the living room.

When I am lying down in dream, it’s a symbol that I don’t have any spiritual ability yet to even see the effects of some of my beliefs.

When I am sitting, it’s a symbol that I need spiritual support to see the effects of some of my beliefs.

When I am standing, it’s a symbol that I now can stand on my own two spiritual feet to see the effects.

When I am walking, it’s a symbol that I am now steadily moving through the beliefs.

When I am running, it’s a symbol I am moving relatively quickly through the beliefs.

Note that I have found that spiritual time and our time are too different things. Usually my dream time is far faster than my physical time. So when I am running etc. I realize that it still will take “some time”.

Back to the dream…

So, I am showing myself that I am now able to stand on my own two spiritual feet to see some of the effects of the beliefs this room is a symbol of BUT I’m not yet able to begin to spiritually work my way through it, i.e. walk.

I wish I could recall where the lighting came from. Why? I’ll take another brief side bar here and tell you what I’ve learnt about lighting in my dream and then return to what I can recall about the lighting.

Lighting in my dreams is very important. It is a way of symbolizing how much en-lightenment I have with respect to the beliefs the dream is about.

Dark in my dreams is a symbol of where I haven’t yet spiritually explored my beliefs. Sunlight is a symbol that my over soul is assisting me.

When I am in rooms with no windows or doors, it’s a symbol that I am “en-lightening” myself on my own.

If there are windows and the sun is shining through, it’s a symbol that some of my belief walls are beginning to be removed and my over soul is now beginning to assist me.

Morning is a symbol I am beginning to make progress on my beliefs. Noon is a symbol I am now able to shed full spiritual enlightenment on beliefs the scene is a symbol of. Evening is a time when I am in a place of spiritual darkness with respect to the beliefs.

If it’s winter, it’s a sign that I need to reflect on my beliefs since they are frozen. If it’s spring, it’s a time that I am beginning to make spiritual progress on the beliefs. If it’s summertime, it’s a symbol that my work is now bearing spiritual fruit. If it’s fall, it indicates I am heading towards a period where I can reap the benefits by releasing old beliefs.

Back to my dream…

So, if there were windows in the room, this would show that I have been making spiritual progress with one or more of the beliefs symbolized by the walls by creating a gap in the belief, i.e. windows.

Regardless, the lighting in this dream is normal. So I am likely en-lightening myself without spiritual assistance of my over soul.

And now I come to the star of this scene…the girl.

“a girl who I recently left lifting up her shirt to show me her stomach and she was pregnant and not only that but my name was tattooed on her stomach in bold print.”

So who is she? Is she herself? Yes. So I am spiritually facing the girl who I made love to and left.

I wish I could recall the colour of her shirt. Why? I will take a brief side bar here and tell you what I’ve learnt about clothes and colours in my dreams and then return to the girl’s shirt.

In my old dreams, I frequently was in places nude and would panic that others would see me (I’m sure readers of this interpretation will have had similar dreams). I was always wanting to get dressed or hide away.

Imagine my surprise when I learnt that clothes are symbols of beliefs we “spiritually wear”. I then have learnt that being nude in a dream is a sign of spiritual progress regarding the beliefs the dream is about.

We are beings where we are both feminine and masculine. We live many, many lives as either sex, sometimes hermaphrodite, gay, whatever. Yet in the world we live in today, being nude is considered somewhat of a “sin”.

So, today, I always rejoice when I am partially nude or wholly nude in a dream. This also applies to footwear.

I’ve learnt as I make spiritual progress regarding a set of beliefs, frequently I am barefoot. Shoes are a way of symbolizing beliefs we use to separate ourselves from our feminine, i.e. ground we walk upon.

I have learnt that colours in my dreams are very important. They are symbols of how the beliefs affect different points on my etheric and physical body. The old Hindi’s of thousand of years ago saw three energies swirling into our bodies at several points they called “chakras”. Then they mapped 70,000 different smaller points they called “Nadis”. This then grew to 100,000 points. It was and is an amazing piece of work.

Since I can only see the first 6 inches or so of an aura around a person and I’m not yet able to see chakras, I use this reference for colours and general body location points “The Chakras” by David Leadbeater. You can find free copies of it online.

I find that this is the best reference I can find to date about colours but the colours in my dreams usually go beyond what I find in David’s reference.

Note from me to you: In your future dreams, try to pay attention to what people are wearing and the colour of their clothes as well as colour of walls, objects et al in a dream scene. This is another way of letting yourself know about the beliefs and where they are affecting your etheric and physical body.

So back to my dream…

The girl is wearing a symbol of a masculine based belief covering her heart down to the second chakra.

“…to show me her stomach and she was pregnant and not only that but my name was tattooed on her stomach in bold print.” So is this for real or not? It’s a probable future. So, I will take a moment here and tell you what I’ve learnt about our reality and then return to the probable future being shown here.

In each present moment, we have an almost unlimited number of probable futures to choose from. We select one and it becomes our new present. The other probable futures we didn’t select become our probable presents. The old present becomes out past. The old probable presents become our probable pasts.

I belief we live in a virtual reality. Now if you think this sounds way out there and not believable, consider this. There is a new area of physics called “digital physics”. A growing number of physics folks are theorizing we live in a virtual reality. This explains things like the double slit experiment, string theory, etc.

There is a nuclear physicist, Tom Campbell, who has had hundreds of out of body experiences. He wanted to reconcile his experiences with his science. So he wrote a trilogy called “My Big TOE” where ‘TOE’ stands for ‘Theory of Everything’.

In this work he has two hypothesis. One is that there is a universal consciousness he calls ‘All That Is’. The second is that it must lower its entropy. This is a scientific term for measurement of degree of randomness.

He then writes about how we live in a virtual reality with time set for our reality that is different than for other realities.

All of this correlates with my own dream and meditation experiences. I have met some of my probable lives and more than a thousand of my other lives that live
‘at the same time’ I do.

If you want to learn more about this, at the end of this interpretation, I recommend a fictional, easy to read trilogy about an Over Soul and some of his entities. I strongly recommend you read this. If you’d like to dive deeper into science, on my website, under resources is a section about digital physics. There, you’ll find links as well as Youtubes.

So back to my dream…

So I am looking at a probable future. In this future, the girl is pregnant with our son.

On to the next scene…

“I'm sitting down and the girl is sitting beside me. My grandma is sitting across from me. It's a large wooden table. My brother is standing behind me on my left side. The infant is sitting at the end of the table almost beside me.”

I will take this in chunks…

First, I am at a dinner table. In my dreams this is a symbol of masculine based beliefs I use to serve myself spiritual food. In my dreams, when objects appear in masculine based belief compartments, like tables and chairs, each one is a symbol of yet more masculine based beliefs I need to address. I’ve found in my own dreams that these objects are the symbols of beliefs I should first work on. Over time, if I am listening to my dreams, then the rooms begin to empty out and I am left to deal with the beliefs symbolized by the walls, floor and ceiling.

The table is made of dead feminine, i.e. wood made from trees – nature. My masculine based beliefs have effectively been spiritually killing my feminine, i.e. tightly controlling it. So I am eating off old masculine based beliefs that have tightly controlled my feminine.

Second, I require spiritual support to see some of the effects of my beliefs, i.e. I am sitting.

I wish I could recall which side of me the girl was sitting on. Why? She and everyone else in the masculine based belief compartment this room is a symbol of share the same beliefs I do too. If she was sitting on my left, i.e. feminine side, it would indicate that the polarity of the beliefs she’s using are slightly more feminine than mine. To the right, i.e. masculine side, it would show her beliefs are slightly more masculine than mine.

My grandma shares the same beliefs this room is a symbol of too. So why’s she showing up in this scene?

There are two reasons. The first is that she’s showing me that she too shares the same underlying beliefs the room is a symbol of. Second, she’s showing me that she is spiritually working with me on them. She too requires spiritual support, i.e. she’s sitting.

“My brother is standing behind me on my left side.” Is it my brother? Yes. So he too shares the same underlying beliefs this room is a symbol of and is also working with me on. He’s able to spiritually stand to see some of the effects of the belief compartment BUT he’s not yet able to spiritually work his way through it, i.e. he’s not walking. So, my brother is slightly more spiritually advanced with respect to the beliefs this room is a symbol of than myself. He’s also letting me know that his polarity is slightly more feminine than mine, i.e. he’s to my left.

And now I come to the star of the scene…our son.

“The infant is sitting at the end of the table almost beside me.” Is it our son or is he a symbol? He’s our son. So, I am looking at a probable version of him.

“He is shy.” He’s waiting for me to figure out this dream, since it’s my dream about myself.

“I then look up at my brother and tell him how much that boy looks like me and my brother agrees with me. I've never seen this boy before. I then ask the girl beside me if he is mine and she confirms that he is.”

So my brother and the girl are both confirming spiritually, that this boy is our son.

“I sit there in a kind of a shock because it was as if I didn't know that she was carrying my child this whole time.” This is an important part of the dream. Why?

I am showing myself a probable future. If I do nothing about it, years might go by before I come to face the results of our sexual liaison. I in turn will not be able to interact with our son. That’s why I am showing myself this scene and feeling “shocked” I didn’t know.

“The infant is clearly 3 or 4 years old by now so time has passed. I'm sitting there observing the boy.”

So, I am showing myself the “passage of time” of about 3-4 years before I come into contact with our son.

“My grandma picks him up by both arms which I didn't like. I got a strong feeling of what it's like to be a father.”

My grandma is showing me what to do, i.e. interact with our son physically. I am now overly protective. This is something, if this probable future comes true, I will have to work on.

“I then look over to the girl and tell her I want to buy him a dictionary so he can speak and be educated.” This is why I am sitting at the table. Why? I am using my masculine based beliefs about linear thought and not using my feminine based ones to love and hold him. This is the message of this dream.

On to the last scene…

I am now in yet another masculine based belief compartment that is at a higher vibratory level than the one downstairs, i.e. upstairs bedroom.

Bedrooms are places where we have sex as well as have out of body experiences, i.e. sleep each night. This dream scene is about sex. The bed is a symbol of a masculine based belief that affects my surface level beliefs about masculine, feminine, gender, sex, roles and relationships as does the rest of the room.

“I ask her for his birth certificate. The whole time she is ignoring me and acting childish. I'm standing at a doorway watching her bend down to get something from under the bed. I believe it was the birth certificate.”

So, I want masculine based belief proof he’s mine, i.e. the birth certificate.

The girl is ignoring me and acting “childish”. Why is this? Hmm…

Recall that this is my dream where I am the producer, director, scriptwriter and main actor. There is nothing in this scene by accident AND THE DREAM IS ABOUT ME. So the girl is showing me that I don’t like feminine based activities, thinking them as childish. Instead, I focus on masculine based beliefs that result in me controlling things.

She is bending down to get something from under the bed. So she and I share the same underlying beliefs this room is a symbol of. She’s actually in the belief compartment beginning to take note of the beliefs while I am at the doorway spiritually looking in but not yet there.

She is beginning to get a symbol of yet another masculine based belief from underneath the bed. This is the first belief I should work on. It has to do with my beliefs about proving that I am the child’s father.

Therein lies the choice of this dream. If I choose to, I choose to ignore this dream and face myself in 3-4 years with a probable future that may or may not materialize. OR, I CAN LEARN TO LISTEN TO MYSELF.

Speaking from personal experience, this path is not always easy since one must learn to face oneself BUT IT IS HIGHLY REWARDING.

If I wanted to learn to listen to myself here are some suggestions I could use:
• Learn to listen to my intuition – it’s my spiritual radar
• Keep a dream journal – each night I get a course on myself
• Learn to meditate – this is a way to connect with the greater me

There are many ways one can get in touch with one self…

Meditation is one way. The old Hindi's of 2,500-3,000 years ago wanted to have out of body experiences. They did this by occupying the conscious mind allowing their inner soul to rise. Today, this is called yoga and the OBE portion is mostly an afterthought.

When they were out of their bodies, they saw energy swirling into the body from the sun, from the earth and from the side. They called these main points "chakras". Then they saw that the energy went into small points they called "nadis".

They then did something that amazes me to this day. They mapped 70,000 different Nadi points and then it went up to 100,000.

This knowledge crossed over the Himalayas and went down into China. It became adopted as energy meridian lines. Today acupuncture uses this.

Yoga is simply one of many ways. On * Link Removed * I list several different ways to meditate. You can go there and see if any one of these resonates with you. If so, then give it a try.

Another way is to use the hemi-sync technology that Robert Monroe pioneered to help people get to the theta state and have out of body experiences. You can go to the Monroe Institute to learn more https://www.monroeinstitute.org/. Books Bob wrote can be found here * Link Removed *

Another way is to go to a hypnotist trained by the Newton Institute. This was created by a psychologist Michael Newton. About 30 or so years ago, he had a woman under hypnosis who went to a place she called her "live between lives". He then found out that many of his other patients went to a very similar place. He then write three books and began to train psychologists how to do this. The Newton Institute can be found here The Newton Institute for Life Between Lives Hypnotherapy. On this website is a link to find a local therapist.

To learn about other lives, I suggest reading a fictional trilogy “Over Soul Seven” by Jane Roberts. She was a great channeler who brought through an entity names Seth in the 1970’s. He wrote many books through her. She also wrote some of her own books.

The books I am referring to are a trilogy she wrote to explain, in a simple story form, complex ideas about us incarnating many times, at the same time. It’s an easy read and good way to get one’s mind around the concept of an over soul and many other lives.

It’s not for me to tell you what to do. If this was my dream, I would take it as a serious spiritual wake up call. I would contemplate what my actions should be.

That’s what a dream does. It alerts us to ourselves and then lets us make choices. So, around you at the moment, are many probable futures.

The choice is yours to make. I hope that some of what I’ve said above deeply resonates within you.

With kind regards,
Guy:)

sorry,your interpretation is long and boring.