I'm Pregnant!

[Foofofoofo]

Hi My friend just told me that he dreamed of me being pregnant! And I told him the baby might be dead . It doesn't not move anymore !! I'm male and he's too.

[JoannaB]

Pregnancy dreams very seldom are about actual preganancy (especially in males :-) ). Pregnancy is often about new projects, new beginnings, new potential. The fact that the baby is dead and might not be moving could mean no progress on the new project, a new idea that is a non starter - that does not lead anywhere from the beginning. The thing is because you are not the dreamer, your friend is, even though he dreamed about you, the dream is most likely about him - most relevant to him, than to you. You could also be symbolic, the new project or idea of your friend's might be about something that reminded him of you, for example. Maybe he wanted to be more like you in some way, for example, but then realized that was a non starter because that was not like him. Maybe he realized that emulating you in this way would never work for him, so might as well not even start. Of course, as with all dream interpretation, this is just one possible way of interpreting this dream. Tell it to your friend, but if he says that does not sound right, then this likely is not the right interpretation for this dream for him. Often it helps to know a bit more about the dreamer, what is happening in his life, what's on his mind, and then the interpretation could be better. An alternative interpretation: being a parent is in part about nurturing and caring, a very emotional response, that some might perceive as weakness. So the miscarriage could be about killing emotions that are perceived as weak. Being more of a manly man. The fact that in the dream it was you who was pregnant, not him, could be a mental effort of trying to distance himself from the emotions, that's not me - it's him.

[Foofofoofo]

My friend is happily married and he have kids . I'm single . He recently moved to his new house . I helped him to with pick the finahes, furniture, floors ..etc. For me , few months ago I started to build my new house . The are some delays & some financial difficulties, I let go of my old contractor. But now things are getting better. I will finish my phase one at least . I will stop for a few months just to take a break to pull my self together mentally & financially. * my mother says it might be a relief of something .

[JoannaB]

Hmm, so maybe your friend's dream is about you in a way. Him being happily married with successful new house, and you not having a family and home building delayed. Maybe his mind made the connection between home and family, and the new home delay being like a miscarriage, that your new building project started but was aborted, much like a pregnancy where the baby is dead? Maybe the dream is saying that you are not ready yet to take on this new responsibility of your new home / new baby?