Wow, that is powerful stuff. Did any parts of the dream remind you of anything? Associations can be extremely helpful in figuring a dream out. |
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Hi everyone! I've asked other people's interpretations on this dream and I'm still not fully content on the answers I've seen. |
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Wow, that is powerful stuff. Did any parts of the dream remind you of anything? Associations can be extremely helpful in figuring a dream out. |
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Last edited by Darkmatters; 09-30-2017 at 09:13 PM.
This is actually a dream I had around a year ago. It was this dream that sparked my interest in seriously interpreting how dreams are influenced by our desires, personalities and the like. I'm sorry if the dream being that old might screw up some interpretations. |
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Last edited by Leonshi500; 09-30-2017 at 11:26 PM.
Yeah, it sounds like it was probably about her, or about your feelings for her. The whale possibly just represented you, or your love, bleeding out. Maybe there was an element of your having outgrown the situation or the relationship or whatever you want to call it? Being a huge whale in a small living room suggests being too big for the situation to me. Also being trapped in an inappropriate environment. Would either of those fit your situation at the time? |
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The dreams upset me because I almost always feel sad whenever I wake up from them. Eventually the sadness is replaced by a feeling of annoyance at the fact I know I'll be dreaming of a similar situation again. I love lucid dreams, and I want nothing more than to confront her while I'm lucid so that I may talk to her. I haven't quite outgrown the dreams because I still have them so frequently. I'd say she appears in every other dream for at least a couple seconds. When this happens, my dream recall completely shifts from the rest of the dream to her, meaning that I forget everything else except her. I would like to keep a dream journal I struggle with dream recall and this certainly doesn't help. |
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When I said it might represent you outgrowing the situation, I meant the infatuation with her. Well actually I left it petty open so you could think about anything you might have outgrown, but I was thinking that might be what it was. Could it be that you're actually over the infatuation with her, but now for some reason you're obsessed with the dreams about her? Like the term "I'm not in love - I'm in love with the idea of being in love". That was from some movie but I forget what it was. Anyway, I'm just throwing out ideas here. |
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I really like the perspectives you're proposing here. |
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Last edited by Leonshi500; 10-01-2017 at 09:18 AM.
If there were no practical issues involved - let's say somehow you find yourselves living close to each other and she doesn't have a boyfriend - so this time it's strictly a question of compatibility between you and her. Would you both be into it and would things go well? |
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would love to try dating her if we could, just to see if it could work in the first place. More than anything, I would love a moment of realization, one tidbit of information or an experience that really enlightens me that all of these feelings are either good or just stupid nonsense and move on. I've had moments like those before, or at least I thought, but the emotions kept reoccurring anyway after some time. |
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Ok, I had a feeling it might be something like that. Here are my thoughts on that kind of situation. There's nothing wrong with just crushing on somebody that you can't have - we've all been there, probably many times. I think of it as the libido wanting to be attached to somebody. And by libido I don't mean it in the reductive and harsh way Freud meant it, strictly as sexual desire. I mean it in the more expansive and positive way. it's the life energy, but it includes sexual desire. It's a positive and reaffirming connection to another person that's somehow intimate and makes you feel amazing. And you can get it even in a relationship that's not reciprocal, like a crush, especially if she likes you too. Of course it's best when you can see the other person and be in their presence a lot - if they move away or you have to stop seeing them the connection is broken and your libido is no longer attached to a real living person. Then you feel isolated and alone. And at that point you'll start fantasizing about them or dreaming about them, because your subconscious wants to experience that amazing feeling you had but is now gone. One way to deal with it is to try to attach the libido to somebody different. It can work to a lesser extent to attach it to a celebrity, but of course that's not the same really. What you're really looking for is that flow of energy that can only happen between 2 people who like each other, whether or not they can have an actual full relationship. |
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Last edited by Darkmatters; 10-01-2017 at 08:15 PM.
Thank you for taking the time to help me understand this dream, you're very good at your job. You explained things more clearly than anyone else so far. I'll try your suggestions and I'm also going to try to make her appear in a lucid dream and try to talk to her. Guess I have another reason to lucid dream now. |
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Glad to hear it - and thank you! |
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