• Lucid Dreaming - Dream Views




    Results 1 to 6 of 6
    Like Tree5Likes
    • 1 Post By Lang
    • 2 Post By Darkmatters
    • 1 Post By Skipper1100
    • 1 Post By PrisonPlanet

    Thread: why do i keep having dreams of my old toxic best friend

    1. #1
      stupid. Achievements:
      1 year registered Created Dream Journal Made Friends on DV Tagger Second Class 1000 Hall Points
      wallad's Avatar
      Join Date
      Dec 2016
      LD Count
      like 10
      Gender
      Location
      New Zealand
      Posts
      3
      Likes
      7
      DJ Entries
      15

      Unhappy why do i keep having dreams of my old toxic best friend

      I don't miss her, I don't even worry about her. I don't even think about her at all, yet she very regularly [like every other day literally] she appears in my dreams. usually shes there sitting with me, being annoying and pushy, supremely clingy, mean, or overreacting to others and such.

      ive only had one dream where she physically attacked me [once i had a dream she saw me, ran up to me and punched me and i woke up in fear.]

      usually in dreams with her I try to avoid her and get away from her and always succeed.
      I don't know why I keep having dreams about her, I was friends with her unfortunately for the entirety of 2017.

      I wouldn't call these dreams nightmares, she doesnt really scare me in the dreams just bothers my dream self.
      why am I having these dreams? its been almost 2 years and she doesn't really bother me at all, barely even think about her, I've moved on, don't miss her one bit or anything.

    2. #2
      Member Achievements:
      Made lots of Friends on DV Created Dream Journal Tagger First Class Tagger Second Class Populated Wall Referrer Bronze 3 years registered Huge Dream Journal

      Join Date
      Apr 2015
      Posts
      1,463
      Likes
      1387
      DJ Entries
      963
      Yeah, I've had dreams like this. The way I see it is there isn't an easy answer or a magic lucid pill to make your subconscious stop thinking about her. You could ask that dream character why she is appearing there. Sometimes they will respond to you. Other time, not so much. You could try to tell them how you feel.
      You most likely have to let it run the course. Or your subconscious is trying to teach her or you a lesson. However, I could be wrong. I've had a similar thing that happened to me before, though, where I would have good days and my bad days.
      Last edited by Ic161; 01-30-2019 at 01:48 AM.
      wallad likes this.

    3. #3
      Diamonds And Rust Achievements:
      Veteran First Class Vivid Dream Journal Referrer Bronze Populated Wall 5000 Hall Points Made lots of Friends on DV Tagger First Class
      Darkmatters's Avatar
      Join Date
      Dec 2009
      Gender
      Location
      Center of the universe
      Posts
      6,951
      Likes
      5831
      DJ Entries
      172
      She might represent some aspect of yourself that reminds you of her. Maybe in some way you're like her? Or maybe there's some part of your personality that you find annoying and wish you could get away from. I don't know, just throwing some ideas out there.

    4. #4
      Chillman Achievements:
      Made Friends on DV 1 year registered Created Dream Journal
      Skipper1100's Avatar
      Join Date
      Sep 2017
      LD Count
      Don't Count
      Gender
      Posts
      60
      Likes
      56
      DJ Entries
      2
      Could represent some kind of repressed emotion with her, maybe you didn't get a chance to tell her how you really felt about her? so
      wallad likes this.
      -----------------------------------------------------------------
      [COLOR="#"]私のMILDテクニック:[/COLOR]
      https://www.dreamviews.com/attaining...ml#post2231862
      -----------------------------------------------------------------

      [COLOR="#000000"]
      Wonderland/PR Dreams Since [1/25/2019]:

      Like..... 14??

    5. #5
      Member Achievements:
      Made lots of Friends on DV Created Dream Journal Tagger First Class Tagger Second Class Populated Wall Referrer Bronze 3 years registered Huge Dream Journal

      Join Date
      Apr 2015
      Posts
      1,463
      Likes
      1387
      DJ Entries
      963
      This person is not a celebrity so really there is no need to keep giving them any attention. Slowly, you would probably see less and less of this person in your dreams. For me, I had seen the person that I would dream about in real life. The best thing that I could do was to treat them like they are a stranger in my dream and real life.

    6. #6
      Member Achievements:
      1 year registered

      Join Date
      Jan 2018
      Posts
      84
      Likes
      30
      If she was toxic perhaps you (unconsciously) reminisce why relationship took place to begin with..in other words, she's still working her way out of your system.
      Ic161 likes this.

    Similar Threads

    1. Apartment Dwellers. Question on Toxic smell
      By DragonSword in forum Fitness and Health
      Replies: 7
      Last Post: 08-09-2015, 10:15 AM
    2. Smell of Burning Fan, is it Toxic?
      By juroara in forum Tech Talk
      Replies: 4
      Last Post: 12-29-2010, 05:34 AM
    3. Toxic gases
      By tash in forum Nightmares and Recurring Dreams
      Replies: 2
      Last Post: 02-26-2010, 05:15 AM
    4. Toxic red clouds- Please Interpret
      By mrskdempsey in forum General Dream Discussion
      Replies: 0
      Last Post: 07-06-2008, 05:00 PM

    Tags for this Thread

    Bookmarks

    Posting Permissions

    • You may not post new threads
    • You may not post replies
    • You may not post attachments
    • You may not edit your posts
    •